My writings of answers, comments, replies on medium from June 2026 forward

To ____Cave-Park

That's all very chatty about having autism, but since you tie what you say about yourself to a claim of autism, and since an autism diagnosis is saying you have a severe disability, what makes you clinically disabled with autism enough that you got the diagnosis from a psychiatrist or some doctor who finds you developmentally disabled and meeting autism criteria in DSM due to severe, impaired, maladaptive behaviors that started in your childhood?

I could only read the first few paragraphs. Maybe you said it past the paywall.

FibetyJibets, June 4th, 2026

To: Suzanna Quintana

I put my underwear on inside out on purpose when there is an uncomfortable sewing seam or stitching method that digs into my skin.

And I have frequently gone to another room and had to look around and try to figure out what I came in there for, either to do or to get. Since many such things are recurring, it is not too hard most times I suppose. But it get challenging at times.

FibetyJibets, June 4, 2026

Keep shopping. So many people are selling and giving the autism diagnosis these day for notions of identity, inclusivity, and for cha-ching.

Once you get the shiny diagnosis you can talk about your autism masking journey for the rest of your life, no maladaptive , severe, disabling behaviors needed after bypassing the DSM criteria. You can show and tell masking autism, like in elementary school.

FibetyJibets, June 5, 2026

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My adamant goal as a real autistic is to reverse my every route. So , yes , I pay attention. You would be hard pressed to find anyone else with "autism", real or alleged, doing this if you tried. Most people with "late diagnosed","high-masking","mild autism", "masked autism" do not have autism, though they do wear and wave an autism mask of autism talk. They just have no real, maladaptive autism-fitting behaviors. Instead, they fit in with all norms, they say.

FibetyJibets, June 5, 2026

To Lila Cave-Park

This is common. Ducking, dodging, evading, refusing to say why you are autistic, of many persons claiming to have autism, with regard to why they fit DSM for autism.

It seems the ones who are empty of reasons go that route.

Some love to reject the medical model.

But the notion that no one owes anyone who asks an explanation is only partly true in a technical privacy sense, until it becomes public record of fraud if criminal fraud is found in anyone, and partly false in the moral sense, in that people in all interactions with others conversationally and transactionally expect truthful dealing in every circumstance, without which, no one could trust anyone to do anything truthfully. Without common truthfulness, on the notion that no one owes truth to any neighbor, society would degenerate into chaos and total depravity.. You could not expect to get water in your water bottle or from your county water supply. You could not rely on any cook to not spit on your hamburger. You could not rely on your car mechanic or airplane mechanic or on your surgeon to be truthful. No one could be trust, because every man would be a liar.

While no one one on the internet can force you or anyone to be truthful or open in explaining why you fit the autism you WAVE AND CLAIM TO HAVE, autism diagnosis in America and around the world is like many other similar things, a hole punched into the government to tap money.

It is no different than food stamps, which is for the poor, homeless and destitute, Medicaid, which is for the poor and disabled, Medicare, which is for the disabled and retired, social security, which is for the disabled, developmentally disabled, retired, surviving widows, widowers and surviving children, and those chronically unable to have gainful employeement, handicapped parking, which is for persons with some clinical disability, and Medicaid waivers, which are for persons with severe developmental disabilities of some kind, and also like veterans benefits. The diagnosis of autism is also comparable to survivors of many things where payments are made to survivors, and to victims of crimes. For example the Sept 11, 2001 attacks on the world trade centers by the airplanes that flew into them. Some persons who were not in or near those towers tried to claim they were injured fraudulently, which was the crime of fraud.

Many people are prosecuted for food stamps fraud.

Hundreds of home health care companies have apparently, reportedly been running fake companies to bilk the United States of billions of dollars , and who knows the depth of that.

Anyone verbal with normal language skills who is communicating without any assistive device, for lack of ability to speak, would have to have severe, maladaptive behaviors

To Lila Cave-Park

This is common. Ducking, dodging, evading, refusing to say why you are autistic, of many persons claiming to have autism, with regard to why they fit DSM for autism.

It seems the ones who are empty of reasons go that route.

Some love to reject the medical model.

Many people are prosecuted for food stamps fraud.

Hundreds of home health care companies have apparently, reportedly been running fake companies to bilk the United States of billions of dollars , and who knows the depth of that.

Anyone verbal with normal language skills who is communicating without any assistive device, for lack of ability to speak, would have to have severe, maladaptive behaviors to have autism, even if it were believable that they masked(concealed) their severe, maladaptive behaviors sometimes with adaptive masking skills. And those severe maladaptive behaviors would be the core autism behaviors that fit DSM.

WITHOUT THAT, AUTISM DIAGNOSIS IS FRAUD AND FALSE.

So, if you want to make autism flippant by your talk of having it, don't tell how your behaviors add up to autism. It makes you sound dishonest.

It should be no secret. Why publish and wave that you have autism at all if can't explain any reason you fit the DSM for the diagnosis?

FibetyJibets, June 6, 2026

A comment to Nicole Akers on medium

The main things teachers need to do are:

(1) to stand and teach by giving instructions to their students in a group that insert knowledge into each child.

(2) Not falsify any grades.

(3) Protect kids from bullies.

(4)Protect kids from child abuse by reporting signs of it, such as welts, stripes, and bruises all over the backside, legs, arms, body.

(5) Show care and kindness to children without partiality.

(6) Realize that any child who is suffering a lot of bullying, who is behind and struggling, who is sleeping at their desk and disengaging, who is asking to get out of class, who is dirty, who has few or no friends, who is hated, who is picked on by several kids is a child who is having troubles beyond what you see and needs to be given extra protection, extra accomodations, extra space, special helps, and probably needs some degree of special education in their education.

(7) Don't mistreat and bully any student, allow it, or encourage it.

There are teachers who are lodged in a teaching job who do zero teaching, who never instruct a student they have, especially in special education, and especially in hospital units for children.

There are teachers and education directors who falsify every grade on a child's official school grades transcript for years, especially in special education. This is a crime worthy of criminal prosecution when it is done and has been done. The crime of fraud.

Some teachers actually cause a child they know is mentally and emotionally disturbed to have mental disturbances deliberately to cause the child to be bullied which mistreating the child in class, in front of the bullies, knowing they are causing the child to be assaulted by the bullies after class, and mocking the vulnerable, mentally ill, victim in front of the bullies who are known to plan to assault the child.

Some teachers and principles start to administer corporal punishment to a child who resists being struck arbitrarily by a teacher who gets off on hitting children for conjured infractions, who tries to further humiliate and punish a child in the hands of the principle and other school employees, who, in turn, plan to paddle the same child when classes let out with the bell, only to see welts already on a child from head to toe all over the child's body, lifting up the child's shirt, getting the child to drop their pants to see the marks, and then then do NOT report it.

FibetyJibets, June 6, 2026

Corporal punishment is not outlawed in Georgia, nor is it the only state allowing it at schools, as well as at home.

There is some muddiness and gray in the law as well.

Some stupid prosecutors think that it's child abuse if a parent ever hits their child for any reason, and especially if there is any mark.

If that were a crime, then whipping your child when you see them on top of a smaller child , beating up the smaller child or something another child, or doing something very dangerous, would be a crime if it left any mark.

But that is not abuse.

Abuse is beating a child repeatedly in livid anger because they rubbed you the wrong way and did not obey every unreasonable command immediately, or because the patent just wants to vent their anger by repeatedly slapping or beating their child while screaming at them, in their face, saying, as abusive parents do, Why do you make me do these things to you? You make me sooo sick!

That's abuse. Not a hand spanking for misbehavior against another kid or for endangering yourself or others.

But with regard to the falsified grades problem, it is not about inflating subjective C worthy grades to B's, of a few D worthy grades to C's .

No. That's not even close.

Not only have teachers committed fraud crimes by inserting non-academic therapies onto official academic grades transcripts by the dozens for children in special education, and outright lies of classes never taken at all, and classes never close to being a quarter finished, much less half finished, and nowhere near earning any grade as completed classes on official grades school transcripts for all k through 12 curriculum for special education students, but massive falsified grades frauds have been done to students across America against disabled special ed and regular students causing millions to graduate with middle school achievement, all due to criminal fraud of teachers across America who should have been charged, arraigned, and forced to answer a judge for their crimes the last several decades.

FibetyJibets, June 6, 2026

To "Lia Diane"

The ability to mask is not disability, and therefore, is not autism; neither is acting, acting normal, being normal, or fitting in.

Autism is severe, maladaptive and impaired behaviors, without which there is zero autism.

FibetyJibets, June 6, 2026

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1DIFFERENCES CONTRASTED IN JUXTAPOSED AUTISTIC FREEZE AND NON-AUTISTIC FREEZE: AUTISTIC FREEZE IS ADAMANT, WILLFUL, DELIBERATE FREEZING AND WAITING FOR VIOLATIONS OF THE INNER SELF BY ACTS OF OTHERS THAT INVADE BY EXTENTIONS IF THEIR SELF BY THEIR ACTIONS THAT INTRUSIVELY ENTER THE AUTISTIC PERSONS INNER SELF BY THE UNINVITED, BOUNDARY TRESPASSING ENTERING OF THE AUTISTIC PERSON’S SENSES AND MIND BY INTRUSIVELY AFFECTING AND VIOLATING THE SENSES, AND WAITING DELIBERATELY AND WILLFULLY FOR THE VIOLATION TO STOP. AUTISTIC FREEZE IS NOT the ERROR AND FALSE ATTRIBUTION OF nonautistic freeze(fight , flight, fawn) due to fear of and keeping safe from physical harm, ERRONEOUSLY TO AUTISM.

2🤨Autistic freeze is the DELIBERATE, WILLFUL, ADAMANT [[[REFUSAL]]] to move, speak, answer, respond to others or engage, AND DELIBERATELTLY [[[WAITING]]] until some UNWELCOMED, UNWANTED, UNINVITED, INVASIVE, INTRUSIVE, VIOLATING noise violation(s) of other persons stop and inner peace and sanctity is resumed. Autidtic freeze is also due to change violations, or touch violations, or other unwanted, BOUNDARY-CROSSING/VIOLATING ACTS THAT VIOLATE THE INSECURE, VULNERABLE, POUROUS-FEELING, UNSEALED-FEELING, EASILY VIOLATED FEELING(PERCEIVED) SENSE OF SELF, by sense-invading violating act(s) of another person or persons, or other violation(s), which can include another person’s unwanted noise(s) and/or other act(s) stop(s) and waiting for cessation of the trespassing acts and a feeling of relief from violation(s) of one’s inner self is restored.

3🤨😐Autistic freeze never was nor ever will be a “shut down” of the brain or being overwhelmed in the senses by fear of physical, bodily harm (example:fear of heights, snakes, lions, tigers, bears, someone brandishing a gun,et), nor the fight response or flight responses to fears of bodily harm.

4😐🤨AUTISM HAS ZERO TO DO WITH FEAR OF BODILY HARM AND ZERO TO DO WITH FIGHT, FLIGHT FEAR OF PHYSICAL HARM FREEZING. THAT IS A SEPARATE KIND OF FREEZE THAT IGNORANT PEOPLE ERRONEOUSLY ATTRIBUTE TO AUTISM.

5🤨😐AUTISM, ALSO IS NOT zoning out, checking out, OR not being there. THOSE ASSOCIATIONS ARE ERRORS BY IGNORANT PEOPLE, including very ignorant , guessing psychologists, who have been GUESSING IN ERROR.

FibetyJibets, June 8, 2026

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DIFFERENCES IN AUTISTIC FREEZE AND NON-AUTISTIC FREEZE COMPARED, CONTRASTED, AND JUXTAPOSED:

(1)AUTISTIC FREEZE IS ADAMANT, WILLFUL, DELIBERATE FREEZING AND WAITING FOR ENVIRONMENTAL VIOLATIONS OF THE INNER SELF TO STOP, WHICH VIOLATIONS ARE DONE BY ACTS OF OTHERS THAT INVADE THE AUTISTIC PERSON BY EXTENTIONS OF THE INVADING PERSONS TRESPASSING, WHICH TRESPASS INTO AND ACROSS THE BOUNDARIES OF THE AUTISTIC PERSON’S SENSE OF SELF, BY SENSE AND MIND INVADING ACTIONS THAT INTRUSIVELY ENTER THE AUTISTIC PERSON’S INNER SELF BY THE UNINVITED, BOUNDARY TRESPASSING ENTERING OF THE AUTISTIC PERSON’S SENSES AND MIND, BY INTRUSIVELY AFFECTING AND VIOLATING THE SENSES.

(2)AUTISTIC FREEZE INCLUDES THE FREEZING ELEMENT OF WAITING DELIBERATELY AND WILLFULLY FOR THE VIOLATION TO STOP. AUTISTIC FREEZE IS NOT ABOUT FIGHT, FLIGHT OR FAWNING. THAT IS ERROR.

(3)Nonautistic freeze of fight , flight, and/or fawning, due to fear of bodily harm, and for the purpose of keeping safe from physical harm is widely, ERRONEOUSLY GUESSED IN ERROR TO BE AUTISTIC FREEZE. FIGHT/FLIGHT/FAWN, FREEZING IS NOT AUTISTIC.:

(5)MORE DETAIL: Autistic freeze is the DELIBERATE, WILLFUL, ADAMANT [[[REFUSAL]]] to move, speak, answer, respond to others or engage, AND DELIBERATELTLY [[[WAITING]]] until some UNWELCOMED, UNWANTED, UNINVITED, INVASIVE, INTRUSIVE, VIOLATING noise violation(s) of other persons stop and inner peace and sanctity is resumed.

(6) Autistic freeze is also due to change violations, or touch violations, or other unwanted, BOUNDARY-CROSSING/VIOLATING ACTS THAT VIOLATE THE INSECURE, VULNERABLE, POUROUS-FEELING, UNSEALED-FEELING, EASILY VIOLATED FEELING(PERCEIVED) SENSE OF SELF, by sense-invading violating act(s) of another person or persons, or other violation(s), which can include another person’s unwanted noise(s) and/or other act(s), and waiting for cessation/stopping of the trespassing acts and a feeling of relief from violation(s) of one’s inner self is restored.

(7)Autistic freeze never was nor ever will be a “shut down” of the brain or being overwhelmed in the senses by fear of physical, bodily harm (example:fear of heights, snakes, lions, tigers, bears, someone brandishing a gun,et), nor the fight response or flight responses to fears of bodily harm.

To "Yobins" on medium

If there is a non-disability, non-clinical, non-diagnosable broad phenotype of autistic tendencies that are sub-autism, one could factually argue that such subclinical tendencies don't have to be severe, and I would agree; but the fallacious notion that clinical autism disability and the impairments and behaviors that constitute autism do not have to be severe, is not only not true according to the stipulations of the DSM, but but such false doctrine cleaves to the rejection of the medical model of autism, which is what deceitful liers do in order to make autism about identity lies, masking lies and deceits, acting normal lies and deceits, blending in with all norms, and other nonautistic things.

FibetyJibets, June 15, 2026

To "teen dream" on medium

You ommit and underestimate the high capacity and inclinations of man in general to be highly deceitful, while also denying the capacity of man to discern truth from lies and deceptions. You also ommit the fact that autism can be viewed objectively according to criteria in the DSM, which is the purpose of the DSM, to organize and order objective core characteristics of autism in order to identify persons with autism in order to divide a separate those with autism from anyone not autistic, especially deceivers and liers. Autism is not normal. Only a lier and deceiver would argue otherwise. Yet some make it their argument that acting normal in autism, and that autism needs no severity. That is not according to the DSM or common sense.

FibetyJibets, June 15, 2026

A reply to Lauri Carpentier

At first glance I did not get it, but I do see the predatory thing in men baiting for any "slightly autistic female", which are not autistic females at all, but which baiting seems to try to take advantage of people who open their selves to deceptions by embracing lies that can leave them open to any predator who would exploit that breach in reason by falsely validating their false narrative loving, "slightly autistic" self-deceived state of mind, which validation, however deceptive and false, might hook women who are looking for false validation, who might swallow such validation, hook, line, and sinker to feel validated in their precious slightly autistic identity of self deception on the non-medical conjuring of autism from bullshit.

FibetyJibets, June 16, 2026

To "Shanti CK"(She said she was a victim of childhood sexual abuse on medium)

I've tried many fruits. I recently found pathaya at my local grocery. It was similar to dragon fruit, which can be super wonderful in sweet goodness or blah if not sweet. But the pataha was amazing. I bought several more for about $5 each. Worth it! I came back for more but they were gone. This fruit you show is completely new to me. I've never seen it before in a picture or in any way. Is it peeled? I'm sure I would love to try it if I could.

Any fruit lovers? Besides pataha, look for new Zealand pears. They are the only pear I know with a fragrance. Like a flower. Another good, unusual fruit is ripe persimmons.

FibetyJibets, June 17, 2026

To Elena Gate on medium

You need to understand that artificial intelligence has no real intelligence. It seems, but it is using what is in literature already, including analytic skills in literature if prompted. It does not know much except what is in literature. Any certainty it has is from certainty in literature. Which it is using. Artificial intelligence is a tool. It can be a thinking companion. A type of helper tool that mimicks a person. It can perform tasks on request. But AI is far from human, and nothing like a living person. The responses it gives of sympathy, empathy and careful advise for medical, legal, and various situations , and the caring , empathetic words are also from literature, drawing on many books, and whole libraries of literature. How it does anything I do not know. But it has limits. It has blind spots. It cannot see things sometimes unless you point them out. It's fine to appreciate it as a very sophisticated tool, but it is not able to replace any living human being, nor understand things on a human level. It is just putting out what seems logical and fitting according to guides it has been given and pulling from literature. So, it could be made better or worse if it's literature is restricted one way or another, or it's guides.

FibetyJibets, June 18, 2026

To a woman on medium who wrote of her stepfather stealing millions from investors and who showed a wedding photo in a ritzy lavish wedding of her dancing with him. She said he betrayed her. The main story details were paywalled.

My comment: Convictions in American courts mean very little. And in other countries it's worse. To say anyone was convicted as evidence of guilt is blindly presuming that courts are just, without personally considering evidence carefully and vigilantly.

Millions of Americans, in civil law based legal battles that ever saw a day in courts, have very likely been highly overcompensated and otherwise undercompensated in employee discrimination lawsuits, car accident lawsuits, and personal injury cases, while millions more have been under compensated, getting very little in bad faith on the part of the vehicle insurance companies.

Some people have been far overcompensated and far under compensated in personal injury lawsuits, with some getting millions for spilling coffee on their self and others getting far too little or the shaft.

Many persons have been highly discriminated against and robbed of education that most everyone else in the United States got, or robbed of their life in a lynching or unjustified killing or other robbery, and they have never been compensated, and have little or zero consolation.

Many people in life are living in poverty in the United States and around the world, and many are severely disabled, and so many are frighteningly disabled and suffering of frightening, hard, suffering filled, and sometimes difficult to look at diseases, and severe disfigurements. Many born with severe disfigurements, some disfigured or maimed by injury or disease.

Many persons are in intensive care units of hospitals suffering and not dancing and will never have a wedding in this life.

Many poor and disabled will never marry or have a wedding in this life, nor ever have children.

Suffering is ubiquitous in this world.

Children and adults who bully the disabled and who enjoy relatively good health and good times, who are willfully blind to suffering will see suffering and feel it eventually. And will anyone help them?

Maybe you stepfather stole millions. I don't know. Remember that, that I said, I don't know.

And I don't know what the hard thing is or things are that you were going to write that he did to you because of the paywall. But I can see from the wedding photo that you have had an affluent and privileged life. And your stepfathers certainly was privileged to have access to millions of dollars according to your report .

So my advice is not that you have not suffered, because we all suffer in this life, but that you look deeply into the sufferings if other people and care about them and, if you can, if you are still privileged and affluent, that you give some portions of what you have to those with nothing who cannot repay you.

I am sure that if I could have read it I would feel sorry for you for suffering some hard thing that your stepfather did to you. I am sorry if he hurt you bad, if that is what you said.

FibetyJibets, June 19, 2026

That's right. Social Security is survival income. One month with out it and any credit cards can go into default, unpaid, to keep payments going for water, electricity(air-conditioning in summer, heat in winter, lights, hot water to shower) and car insurance, life insurance. It's a choice. Two months without social security and all utilities are at risk of being cut off, or, if you still have u sacrificed credit, you live on credit if you have any. But that won't last, because those can go unpaid too without any income. A year without social security and one could die in a hot sweltering summer, or freezing winter and have their house foreclosed on by the county property tax office.

FibetyJibets June 19, 2026

I just try to make sure my two window air-conditioners are functioning , and that my car air-conditioner is functioning, do that I do not get heat illness for lack of adequate air-conditioning, because that can be life threatening and can quickly become a medical emergency.

FibetyJibets, June 19, 2026

To Rocco Pendola on medium

The photo sais a lot. Too bad medium blocks downloading any photo. I couldn't read but a few paragraphs before the paywall, but the scene in that photo on spain of that kind of walkway along any road is rare in America. It would be hard to find any road in America with such a wide sidewalk. It's not common. I wonder if it was unusual in Spain also, and if such wide sidewalks are commonplace or rare in Europe.

FibetyJibets, June 20, 2026

There's no need to advertise if you're hiring family and friends for your own company. Even for someone else's if you ask for permission or somehow get it okayed.

This is not automatically illegal or wrong in any way unless it is expressly prohibited and forbidden by an employer, in order to make all applicants go through certain hoops for fairness and qualifying. But if going through you, as hiring manager, is the only real hoop, and only one job is available, and it's supposed to be fair and open to all applicants, the appearance is of unfairness if the family member is hired by another employee who is in charge of hiring.

Family owned businesses prefer family all the time. No conflict there. The fact that some families have a family member with hate and narcissist evil dishonesty towards a family member is a separate issue, an exception to the norm. Usually family members loved one another. Some hate and mistreat another, or worse. But family hiring their own is common and well accepted.

FibetyJibets, June 20, 2026

A reply to someone named Merrily Hall

😐I don't go straight to whatever I want. So what you describe is not essentially the same. I see everyone as walking a path that is tied to their spirit. How about that? I see the crossing of paths irreversibly as harm to the spirit. Therefore walking straight to what I want , between any other persons along the way, would violate my spirit, as they would irreversibly criss-cross behind me. That is controlled by not walking straight to anything, but by keeping to perimeters(walls, outer and inner outermost sides of any place . In fact, I mostly do not buy things in any store except they are on perimeter shelves or very near the perimeter. This means I avoid most of the store and most of its inventory. My problem is not that I don't enjoy shopping. My problem is that I feel vicerally violated by people irreversibly circling me or irreversibly crossing my path, and I viscerally want to reverse and undo every path I go, walking or otherwise. Going straight to what I want to shorten the shopping experience is the opposite of what I do. I have slept in parking lots to reverse my way out a door I was force out that was not the door I came in. When I was in a hospital last year and taken by force to a nursing home, when I got out I had many notes for reversing everything, and I reversed my paths against heavy resistance from nursing home force, against hospital security, hospital nurses, and hospital police who followed me out into the street after I managed to reverse my way from the nursing home, back the way I came to the hospital, back the reverse way I was forced to leave the hospital, and back out the hospital the way I originally came in, through the inner emergency room, and out the inner emergency room ambulance bay door, which they had called hospital security police to stop me from doing, which I was able to do in spite of their efforts to stop me, as a nurse came to the bay door from the outside and it opened, allowing me out like a cat escaping.

So your presumption underestimates what I was describing.

FibetyJibets, June 21, 2026

To "noisy skin bag" : Your making a lot of assumptions. I know nothing about any autism speaks pride post or why I would be hurt by it. And the presumption that persons with autism have to have sex in order for there to be any true autistic offspring is false. Autism is not a race.

FibetyJibets, June 21, 2026

To "D.D. Marshall": Every page I write is my own page. And just as you have invited yourself to call my words garbage, I responded to someone with my dialog on what autism is, and is not.

Here is what I wrote to "warrior woman" again

To warrior woman. You described yourself, like many others, as one who has masked all your life and now have obtained your autism diagnosis to hold, wave, wear, talk about, explore, journey, show and tell like so many do. Sadly, because your view and perspective of autism is the masking narrative, you will probably find that you are going to perform autism and wear autism as a mask over your self as many maskers do. Yet autism has practically nothing to do with masking , never did, and never will. Masking and unmasking is not core autism any more than exhaustion. That is pop psychology. Real autism is maladaptive, norm-clashing behaviors and impairments that are abnormal in society which do not blend in, or which do not blend in at certain choke-points of norm-clashing situations at doors, lines, in crowds, social conventions, security checkpoints, herding points, noise situations, where police may be called if it is escalated against the autistic child or adult, and where children are often abused, hospitalized, drugged, restrained, put in special education.

The masking narrative that anyone masked autism, a developmental disability, through all of early childhood IS FALSE; THAT ANY TRUE AUTISTIC CHILD, IN ALL THEIR CHILDHOOD MANAGED TO POWER THROUGH BABYHOOD/ CHILDHOOD BY MASKING ALL inability to read people, -by masking their nervous system, and by masking all maladaptive, severe behaviors, starting in the crib, through nursery school, kindergarten, first, second, third, fourth grades, etc. THAT’S FALSE OF EVERY PERSON MAKING, IMPLYING, SUGGESTING, INSINUATING, OR PRESUMING THAT CLAIM. NO AUTISTIC CHILD MASKS THEIR IMPAIRMENTS AND MALADAPTIVE BEHAVIORS. THEY BANG THEIR HEAD, ROCK FOR HOURS, ARE UNABLE TO SPEAK, WALK BACKWARDS, WHATEVER.

The masking narrative is that maskers with masking type autism have autism by circular, circuitous reasoning that they masked their authentic identity of autism, not abnormal core maladaptive, severe behavioral responses, which they never had, in response to all violations of self. Supposedly maskers, in their childhoods have masked autism by sophisticated executive-functioning overriding of maladaptive, abnormal behaviors in all of their childhood, posing that they also suppressed their “identity” of autism, as if autism were identity known or existing in childhood. Autism is essentially severe, maladaptive behaviors and severe inability to connect with others(disability), or severe, maladaptive, deliberate refusal to connect with people, and impaired behaviors of fears of every person in any room violating every boundary. "Masking" is vastly non-autistic, and in the context of autism is nothing like nonautistic masking, but is narrowly purposed in autism for boundaries and escaping boundary harm, is only in one catagory of autism, is always a boundary issue, and is always fringe situations which have nothing whatsoever to do with socializing or blending in with others for any purpose of socializing. Whoever you got your diagnosis from on the basis of masking, who wanted to be inclusive of you and probably everyone lgbtq also, because that is part of the inclusivity lies, has misled you. They handed you a counterfeit autism mask to put on and wear.

FibetyJibets, June 3rd, 2026

FibetyJibets, June 21, 2026

A nice example that "authentic self", norm-blending (suffering?), conforming to norms culture is not autistic, as pop-feaux-autism-psychobabble would have us all believe.

FibetyJibets, June 22, 2026

I agree with the premise that you gave and started with, that changing the rules in geometry (and math) gives true answers. I could not read where you went with it; paywall. FibetyJibets, June 22, 2026

To D.D. Marshall

The kisses of an enemy are deceitful. But the wounds of a friend are faithful.

FibetyJibets, June 22, 2026

To Shakyra Sanchez on medium

I was very interested. I could only read to the paywall. I think I am missing some things other people are seeing sometimes on some platforms. Most people don't know that there are two main types of severe autism and that all autism was once counted as childhood schizophrenia or schizophrenia until Leo Kanner and others started separating autism from childhood schizophrenia.

I was diagnosed with childhood schizophrenia while hospitalized for a few years of my childhood, and I had classic, severe, maladaptive, abnormal behaviors, and rigid, restrictive, inflexible, routine, routine, undoings, reversings, aversions to others noises, ritualistic looking behaviors, ways of doing things, and responses to others acts(noises, movements, changes, obstacles). As Kanner saw, persons with autism do not participate by inability or by adamant unwillingness and for certain reasons , which, with a little insight, are boundary related.

My psychiatrists and the whole psych hospital , because if you are labeled schizophrenic, they ALL fall in line with that as they also do if labeled autistic, LABELED ME SCHIZOPHRENIC, WITH CHILDHOOD SCHIZOPHRENIA. Thus, they ALL wrote about me and dealt with me as if all my thinking was crazy, bizarre and not to be listened to or affirmed as having any coherence, logic, or reason.

Ironically, when they wrote of conversing with me, they often wrote that I spoke coherently.

Years later, the same psychiatrist I was given at age 13, through 17, confessed that they had made mistakes and he overturned his childhood schizophrenia diagnosis of me, giving me a autism diagnosis. His mistakes had involved me being assaulted for about two years with forced injections of prolixin in adult doses that would be high for adults, which gave me dangerous side effects, including dangerously high fever, akathesia, severe spasmodic torticulus, tardive dyskinesia, and a severe allergic reaction to another drug, and adverse side effects to haldol that I was high dosed on by ignorant nurses following doctors orders to give and force dangerous drugs to me on the basis of misdiagnosis.

I had the severe, maladaptive behaviors, but no one read Kanner carefully, no, not any psychiatrist. They only scanned, skimmed and read cliff notes lightly to derive short shrift , guessed, shallow perspectives on what autism was, which my psychiatrist thought was hand-flapping, but only if he saw it personally while I was hospitalized .

The ironic fact is that I did do a lot of hand clapping for years of my childhood. There were zero smart phones. Most people around me never regarded it. But he assumed I never did it, cause he didn't see it, because I did not do it every minute. Not that hand-flapping constitutes autism either. But the way psychiatry is done is not always careful or factual or truthful. Many assumptions are made. And were made years ago as well. What they did make a record of was that I was undoing and reversing many things, especially my paths. Severe undoing behaviors are classic, core, maladaptive autistic behavior. But they chose only to regard my undoing behaviors, because they were so severe and abnormal(walking backwards to undo forward walking) , as bizarre, not autism, despite that it fit DSM for autism in every Manuel, though not how they assumed it should fit with assumed behaviors if hand-flapping. My doctor literally believed that hand-flapping was an essential core behavior of autism, and that without it there was no autism, ignoring all my other maladaptive, severe, separating, disconnecting, severe behaviors that kept me from participating with anyone, that kept me separated from everyone. This because psychiatry and psychiatrists, smug and prideful as they were, had not really read Kanner at all. They all missed the main point of everything he said. That autism is severe behaviors , inabilities, disabilities, and emotional disturbances that KEEP CHILDREN SEPARATED FROM OTHER BY INABILITY AND OR WILL. THEY CAN'T OR WON'T PARTICIPATE. THEY CAN'T JOIN IN OR WON'T JOIN IN. THAT IS THE MAIN THRUST OF AUTISM.

Anyway, I am interested in people dealing with real autism, which is severe and medical, not mild and based on acting normal all your life, then calling normal behavior masking of your identity, while waving an autism identity with zero severe behaviors.

Autism is severe, maladaptive behaviors that make it very difficult to participate normally , and which separate autistics children and adults from others, by inabilities, and by adamant, visceral boundary responses to all the things the world does that invade(noises, changes, touches, boundariless movements, etc ) that that vulnerable autistic person feels easily violated by.

But, again, there are two, not one, main types(categories) of autism. Both are developmental disability. One is cognitive inabilities, such as being nonverbal, echolalia, and severe behaviors that accompany cognitive inabilities, such as headbanging, rocking incessantly, etc. The other is a fractured, vulnerable sense of self autism, of feeling easily violated by all persons and every uninvited thing they do that invades the senses and sense of self.

FibetyJibets, June 22, 2026

Another comment to Shakyra Sanchez

Maybe you'll find out that most of what I say is true. A lot of persons of the boundaries type autism are erroneously presumed to to have such problems as fight, flight reaction as people have from fear, and from so called sensory overload, having put very shallow thought into it, but ignoring the uninvited, unwanted unwelcomed, vulnerable and violated boundaries components, which tear apart the notions of fight and flight brain disorder or fight and flight fear freezing disorder . Yet the the fact of autistic persons plugging their ears, recoiling from unwanted touch is well known. The connection is made lazily with "misophonia" to the fact that the noises that cause "rage" are "unwanted" in wikipedia, (rage is visceral), and even more lazily , checkered, and sleepily in autism dialog, in which people do say they are driven up the wall by others noises, but fail to connect the dots that it is always a boundary violation of not only the bodily senses, but the sense of self. There are two main types autism though, and not everyone has the fractured, vulnerable self, boundaries oriented, trespass-senistive type main category of autism like I have. The other is also developmental. Both are developmental. The other is more cognitive inabilities, such as inability to understand things, such as inability to understand language. No one has any autism based on masking. That is deception. Masking is non-autistic behavior; and non-autistic masking is ubiquitous. So is deceit, which is a form of masking, and which is most masking. But true autism is being separated from others by severe inabilities and severe emotional and boundary related disturbances, and maladaptive responses to the world , the noises they make, the things they do, and being unable to connect, or adamantly unwilling, causing separation, or making separation, by inability, or by will, adamant, visceral, self-protrctive will that does not blend in, but clashes with violating norms. FibetyJibets, June 23, 2026

Edited. Again, to Shakyra Samchez.

Maybe you'll find out that most of what I say is true. Autism has two main types, which are like apples 🍎and oranges 🍊of autism. A lot of persons of the boundaries type, norm-clashing, self-protrctive, trespass-senistive main-type autism(oranges of autism type🍊) are erroneously presumed to have such problems as fight, flight reaction as people have from fear, and from so called sensory overload, having put very shallow thought into it, but ignoring the uninvited, unwanted unwelcomed, vulnerable and violated boundaries components, which tear apart the notions of fight and flight brain disorder or fight and flight fear freezing disorder . Yet the the fact of autistic persons plugging their ears, recoiling from unwanted touch is well known. The connection is made lazily with "misophonia" to the fact that the noises that cause "rage" are "unwanted" in wikipedia, (rage is visceral), and even more lazily , checkered, and sleepily in autism dialog, in which people do say they are driven up the wall by others noises, but fail to connect the dots that it is always a boundary violation of not only the bodily senses, but the sense of self. There are two main types autism though, and not everyone has the fractured, vulnerable self, boundaries oriented, trespass-senistive type main category of autism like I have. The other is also developmental. Both are developmental. The other is more cognitive inabilities, such as inability to understand things, such as inability to understand language. No one has any autism based on masking. That is deception. Masking is non-autistic behavior; and non-autistic masking is ubiquitous. So is deceit, which is a form of masking, and which is most masking. But true autism is being separated from others by severe inabilities and severe emotional and boundary related disturbances, and maladaptive responses to the world , the noises they make, the things they do, and being unable to connect, or adamantly unwilling, causing separation, or making separation, by inability, or by will, adamant, visceral, self-protrctive will that does not blend in, but clashes with violating norms. FibetyJibets, June 23, 2026

A comment to Liora Daven on medium

What you describe makes no sense. In any part of the United States a person can live very well on half a million dollars a year income, which is take home pay, or net profit, not revenue before paying costs of doing business if self employed.

I live in a single-wide mobile home, which was $24,500 brand new, and was over-priced on the blue-book value at that price. I own the land. I have zero mortgage payment. I paid it off years ago. I live check to check on Social Security income as a disabled person. If I had even a quarter million annually to live on, I would be living like a king. But you say that over 40% of those with half-million DOLLAR incomes are living paycheck to paycheck. Even if their monthly mortgage payment was $5,000 a month, they would have more than enough with $500,000 annual income.

FibetyJibets, June 23, 2026

All kinds of men wanted a wife for years and/or still want a wife, but besides the guy feeling like he doesn't have enough money or things to make the girl he likes happy, the girl makes it clear to him also that his bicycle is no good. She expected him to have a car. He loves(loved) her. She finds someone else, marries them, divorces them, and later the one who loved before her divorce cross paths again and he finds she is divorced. But now he knows two things about the girl he still loves. She has expectations he could not meet, AND someone else did not meet her expectations also, and the matter is worse. So he drifts away. They never date again or marry, though he loved her for years.

This is not uncommon

Ray Charles did a sing along these lines called You don't know me.

Frankie Valley, I guess, if I have the performer right, did a song about it: My eyes adored you.

The Beatles did a song in the vein of this called: If I fell.

Lionel Richie did a song along these lines with the Comodores called Please just go away or something like that. Probably titled different, but that's part of lyrics.

Hall and Oats wrote about the man-eater girl.

Men are naturally romantic, and naturally fall head over heels in love with a girl, which is also reflected in many love songs , love letters and other ways men communicate their love for their dear wife or whoever they hope to marry.

However flawed and marred the whole world is with sins, which even modern Sodomites loudly acknowledge in bullhorn protests against one person or another, in that they condemn Donald Trump and others for THEIR SINS, the fact is that GOD, YES GOD, HAS PUT SOME GOOD IN THIS WORLD INSIDE OF MEN AND WOMEN FOR OUR OWN GOOD. THE CAPACITY TO LOVE, ETC.

So , be thankful to GOD, YES GOD, if you marry and have children. It is a blessing and a gift FROM GOD, THE GOD OF ADAM AND EVE, NOAH, ABRAHAM, ISAAC, JACOB, MOSES, SAMSON, SAMUEL, DAVID THE KING, SOLOMON THE KING, DANIEL, WHO'S SON IS JESUS CHRIST.

FibetyJibets, June 23, 2026

What you are asserting is why OLDER MEN ARE RIGHT FOR YOUNG WOMEN with your frame of mind, and women like you, whatever your age, BECAUSE 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 YEAR OLD "MEN" , INCLUDING TEENAGERS 18 AND 19, MANY OF WHOM, at 18 and 19, ARE IN HIGH SCHOOL, CANNOT TURN ON, as you said, SUCH WOMEN AS YOURSELF, who are turned off WHILE THEY ARE UNESTABLISHED.

SO ALL OF YOU WOMEN WITH NO ROOM FOR A YOUNG, UNESTABLISHED MAN TO BECOME SOMEONE , WHO COULD CARE LESS ABOUT HELPING A YOUNG MAN , WHO HAVE ZERO INTEREST IN A YOUNG MAN'S DREAMS, WHO WANT MEN TO BE SELF-SUFFICIENT, FULLY ESTABLISHED WITH BRUCE WAYNE OR ELON MUSK LEVEL OF SUCCESS ON THE FIRST DATE ARE UNSATISFIED WITH THE MAJORITY OF YOUNGER MEN, EXCEPT TO USE THEM.

FOR YOU AND YOUR TYPE WOMAN, YOU NEED TO STEAL SOMEONE'S HUSBAND, OR CLAMMOR FOR FIRST DIBBS ON THE MOST ELIGIBLE MILLIONAIRE, WHOSE MONEY AND SELF-SUFFICIENCY MAKES THEM HAVE A CHANCE.

Something you are blind to: you are a child! Yes you. We all are. You are self-centered. That is totally childish.

You would hate and divorce any billionaire in your self-centeredness. So good luck with that.

FibetyJibets, June 23, 2026

Visiting as a tourist never gives the true picture. If she lived here for a year out of her backpack, doing the best she could to pull herself up by her bootstraps, then I'd like to know her take on (view of) America.

Even the rich in America know that poverty is all around, and suffering.

FibetyJibets, June 23, 2026

To Katlyn Roberts ("poor steward Katlyn Roberts") on medium who claims to be autistic on the basis of having been forced to be normal all her life.She was writing about taking care of her grandmother , Patricia, calling her "it" repeatedly, strangely, as someone with dementia. In the title she said "loved one". And with the photo, she identified her grandmother as grandmother and Patricia, but was strangely calling her "it" as she wrote of her interactions with her.

MY COMMENT TO KATLYN:

Why did you not call this person neurodivergent, like you did yourself? Don't you know that dementia, Parkinson's, and Alzheimer's are forms of neurodivergence, from normal neurology? Or had you not thought of it that way when, in another piece, you wrote as if you were about to evaluate if you are in a neurodivergent cult after saying you had been force to be normal all your life?

FibetyJibets, June 24, 2026

Edited last comment:

Why did you not call this person(your grandmother Patricia, from the photo note, despite calling her “it”) neurodivergent, like you did yourself? Don’t you know that dementia, Parkinson’s, and Alzheimer’s are forms of neurodivergence, from normal neurology? She’s just neurodivergent like you and on the neurodivergent spectrum LIKE YOU!!! Or had you not thought of it that way when, in another piece, you wrote as if you were about to evaluate if you are in a neurodivergent cult after saying you had been force to be normal all your life?

FibetyJibets, June 24, 2026

Unfortunately it's very likely leaving out the main words that everything hangs on at this place, which is that this is only for the rich and affluent and their children with special needs. Chances also are that everything at this community is sold at a premium: access, housing, services, food, activities, and anything else.

Why do I say this? Because we have at least one such premium place for persons in the state where I live called Annondale, which is extremely high priced, which only wealthy people can afford.

And besides, the assisted living market is booming for all kinds of wealthy persons. This is like just another market being tapped. There may be some caring people involved, but what would the world do if the honeypots of government money and rich person's money were not available? How many mother Teresa's would step into the vacuum?

The corporate person's interested in money would scatter and justify themselves. No hurricane needed. Just take away the moneypot.

FibetyJibets, June 26, 2026

A reply to Katlyn Roberts

I'm glad you love her. I could only read to the paywall. Could have been another hundred words or more. Couldn't tell. Medium probably doesn't say. They do say in some things.

I doubt people with a new diagnosis of autism who talk about neurodivergence have thought about it in most cases, that person's with different, atypical, disordered, malfunctioning, abnormal neurology include those with epilepsy, cerebral palsey, down syndrome, Alzheimer's, Parkinson's, stroke, dementia, mental retardation, autism, traumatic brain injuries, blindness, deafness, meningitis, encephalitis, schizophrenia, anti-psychotic drug induced states, drugged mental states, drunkenness, shock, fevers, and probably many other conditions, and all that besides animal/creature neurologies, such as that of dogs, cats, chimpanzees, horses, cows, pigs, sheep, reptiles, marine life, birds, which all have differing neurology than human.

FibetyJibets, June 26, 2026

A comment to Ruby Lee, any anyone else reading it.

I couldn't read all of it due to paywall. I think medium may make it difficult for some people to do links also, but some do manage it. Others think they made a link , but it's just writing.

But I know this problem very well. Dental care in America is very money-centered and dentist-centered. And dental insurances plans are full of schemes, whether they are discount plans, forced saving plans of traditional dental insurance full of limitations and exclusions, or Medicare advantage plan dental insurance coverage that is attached to the larger plan.

Dentists love to exploit the exam and exray coverage a deny all dental procedures. That's right. You, reader, read that right. DENTISTS LIKE TO EXPLOIT DENTAL IMSURANCE SND MILK IT BY A USELESS EXAM AND BY XRAYING YOU, ME, EVERYONE, TO THE INTENTION OF SUBSEQUENTLY, DELIBERATELY REFUSING TO GIVE US ANY DENTAL CARE AFTERWARD.

And that's not all of the trouble with dentists.

Many dentists are unqualified to inject anyone, despite whatever bad training they have, with local anesthetics, bringing their psychological, mental fears and discomfort at THEIR IDEA OF BEING IN PAIN GHEIR OWN SELF, to the point of injecting you and me, and any adult or child with ANESTHETICS, which can kill you in high doses.

And these badly trained dentists, who should only being giving children about 36 milligrams on average of any dental anesthetic, and any adult, on average, about 72 milligrams of any dental anesthetic, such as prilocaine (Citanest), mepivicaine (Carbocaine), or lidocaine, especially plain, WITHOUT EPINEPHRINE, because plain is more toxic, more dangerous, in terms of Local anesthetic systemic toxicity in the blood stream that can block sodium channels to the heart muscle. But instead, projecting their own personal, reckless, distorted feelings, fears and bad assumptions and ignorance as badly trained and bad attitude dentists, full of arrogance, pride and dishonesty, they scheme a plan while you are becoming their patient, which they do with every patient, to get you to sign a waiver of liability and medical consent form, which falsely, flippantly make it appear that you had full disclosure of the risks just minutes before they inject you with QUADRUPLE THE AVERAGE DOSE, ABOUT 288 MILLIGRAMS FOR AN ADULT AND SIMILAR FOR CHILDREN, CAUSING MANY CHILDREN AND ADULTS HEART ARYTHMIAS, LOCAL ANESTHETIC SYSTEMIC TOXICITY, METHEMOGLOBINEMIA, CAUSING SOME TO TEETER NEAR CARDIAC ARREST, AND KILLING SOME CHILDREN AND ADULTS BY OVERDOSE, WHICH THEY DO RECKLESSLY AND FLIPPANTLY, AND DISHONESTLY, ALSO TRYING TO VOVER THEIR ASS BY DELAYING PARAMEDICS, DENYING THE GRAVE EMERGENCY, A D FOING BAD MEDICAL HANDOFFS OF DELIBERATELY NOT GIVING PARAMEDICS THE ANESTHETICS INFO, TO KEEP IT HID FROM THE ER DOWNSTREAM. YES!!!!!!!! THAT HAPPENS!!!!!! DENTISTS DO THAT!!!!

And that's not all. Dentists and their office managers, and sometimes their corporate liasons conspire together to blacklist patients deliberately in collusion with their corporate management companies by having a message about a person who they want to illegally blacklist from dental care at dozens or hundreds of chained dental clinics on the word of one dentist or office manager or corporate person who instructs all customers service reps that set appointments through a central number to not schedule you by a message that populates on their computer terminal instructing them to not schedule you indefinitely, ever .

That's not all.

Dentists have stock tricks now that are widely used and widely passed along at dental courses or by collusions , conspiracies, or word of mouth malice among dentists, possibly starting at some dental schools by their instructors on how to subterfuge their way out of looking like they abandon you as a patient while abandoning you illegally .

Their tricks are to give you a list of three or four dentists as if they are referrals and then cut you off, even if they started your dental care by doing a root canal, but then they refuse to crown it. They say, without ever ordering any dental crown, that you might not be satisfied with any crown, that it might not work, etc, without trying one.

So beware your dentist. Save your cash for getting teeth pulled at minimum, which is the most many dentists do for people they look down on, and don't let they induce heart arythmias and risk killing you with FOUR, 72 milligram cartridges(288 MILLIGRAMS) of ANESTHETICprilocaine, mepivicaine, lidocaine or any anesthetic, WHEN THE AVERAGE DOSE FOR ANY SHORT PROCEDURE IS 72 MILLIGRAMS, NOT 288, ONE CARTRIDGE, NOT FOUR!!!!

FibetyJibets, June 26, 2026

A reply to Peggy Woods

I was in a nursing home last year briefly, by force, believe me, taken in restraints. I also tried to leave and they came running, several staff, followed me, blocked me, forced me to go back and had police looking at me. And they were practically all very nice people. And yet, it was about $240 daily. So, I wonder what would happen if they no money. The administrator told me (or someone) that they get millions.

Assisted living is a business that many love for milking all, and I mean ALL, the cash they can get from the rich.

They may have loving caring staff in some degrees. And this is true of hospitals too. But they run on cash. And that cash becomes the center of the place for many assisted living homes. No cash, no home. No sliding scale. No sponsors for the poor. No Medicaid accepted. Funny thing is that many special persons programs, services, residential homes etc get on the radio asking for donations of cars, boats, land, etc, which they say help the developmentally disabled. The Tommy Nobis center in georgia does that- asks for cars, etc to help the developmentally disabled. But do they use any car donation money to pay for even one developmentally disabled person to get any service, even one service? Not according to them on any phone inquiry. No. They say that they are not free and that they serve no one who has no Medicaid waiver money, or vice rehab funding. So what do they do with car donation money? Who knows. They are not for profit, but they may pay themselves comfortable salaries.

FibetyJibets, June 26, 2026

Another reply to Peggy Woods regarding her comment on my perfect numbers piece.

Sorry to hear that. I may not have made it as clear as possible too. I never went to regular high school. I have to keep asking AI to explain the math symbols, terms and signifyers it uses, many of which my phone keyboard does not have. So , what I can do is not highly overgrown in dense math jargon.

FibetyJibets, June 26, 2026

A comment to Linda Caroll, who wrote a piece on medium titled: "Can you give me one good reason why men don't read women." , in a blog called the fourth wave.

I commented:

According to your title and report, there is a problem with men not reading what women have to write about in general, which you then narrowed to focus on your anecdote of a man who commented on something you apparently wrote about the subject matter of Jeffery Epstein preying sexually on minors, which you correllated as an example of your title problem of men not reading women writers, saying that the following order of discourse occured:

First a man read what you wrote about Epstein and commented his view, entering the dialog, as people do when joining conversation online, stating his view that the bigger issue is not Epstein and "elites" preying on it exploiting children, but that pedophilia in general was a larger problem issue(which women get arrested for too). His comment was Germaine to discussion of Jeffrey Epstein preying on children, but you wrote that you had discussed it in another link, dismissing him from where he was dialoguing , sending him away as if his input was misplaced. That was dishonest and rude.

Then you say another woman told you to ignore him. She also was a churl. So the problem of men not reading women writers is men bashing and dishonest conversation including rude , churlish dismissals.

FibetyJibets, June 27, 2026

Your not talking about persons with autism when you talk about masking to "pass as a normie". Passing as a normal person is not autism and has nothing to do with autism.

Funny all the contradictory bull is maskers both carrying on to supposedly pass as normal and trying to talk everyone into believing they are autistic by so many clever, deceptive masking post so much that they deceive many that masking is autistic behavior, and that acting normal is autistic, when that is a lie. There is no autism when there is no maladaptive, abnormal, norm-clashing, norm-breaking, disabling, disabled, emotionally-disturbed, desperate, impaired, visceral, deeply troubled, fearful effort, act, behavior by inability, limited ability or willfully, deliberate, desperate, visceral refusal to connect with other, making separations from others persons in many ways, WHICH IS OPPOSITE BLENDING IN SOCIALLY WITH ALL NORMS, BECAUSE THAT IS NOT AUTISM AT ALL.

FibetyJibets, July 1st, 2026

I don't know what all you wrote (paywall), and I don't believe most people who say they are autistic until I hear or read something that sounds like it fits the DSM in regards to impairment, maladaptive, disabling behaviors, etc, and I comment in several forums, and don't always recollect if I commented on something you , or anyone said before, or wrote(I comment on YouTube also). But your basic premise is correct, and your basic assertion is correct that anyone with autism, real autism, the kind of autism full of mental disability, would have, and do have problems working, major problems that keep persons with autism disconnected and unemployed. The same is true of being socially disconnected. Autism is characterized by being disconnected, not by blending in with all social norms.

FibetyJibets, July 1st, 2026

Sadly, you did not understand sepsis well enough. And your crash course in the ICU was not enough, or you could not or would not grasp the gravity that it was the leg or his life. You lost him and his leg. But you are not alone in failing such a problem. My dad passed in March of last year(2025). I knew nothing of vasopressor drugs, which they had him on. I knew nothing of "titration" as my dad's blood pressure was gradually going down she two nurses were up to giving my dad a 30cc rapid bolus into his IV line of epinephrine without titrating it for for the slow , measured amount that would make the necessary difference to get his blood pressure up over several minutes instead of all at once in a single push of a syringe plunger.

They were probably setting up my dad to die within the next hour, which he did, and I looked, and I was unsure, but I was ignorant and I did not object or ask any questions, or demand some information first.

My dad might have live two more hours or two more days if they had not done things to hasten his death.

But what can you do but pray to God when ignorant. And I was ignorant. Neither was I very full of faith either, like some saint apostle of the Lord. If I had been more reliant on God, I would have told the doctor to get out of my face with his words, "He can't survive this!" and I would have said, You leave that to God and try to support my dad. If fact, I failed to grasp or know that my dad had not been helped by catheter to pee in the last 8 to 16 or so hours. He must have been suffering from that. No one checked his electrolytes that I know, which was needed, since he had been on a diuretic.

I definitely have regrets.

I miss my dad often also.

FibetyJibets, July 2, 2026

Thank you. I was drawn to your posts because you wrote of losing your Dad. The things you wrote I relate to deeply. I wish you much strength and healing too. I do not know where exactly my dad is, and oh how I relate to wanting him back, how I call out for him, but I know he trusted in Jesus Christ and is with him, wherever Jesus' kingdom is, wherever Jesus' heaven is, which is like air-force one with our U.S. president, wherever he is. That is where heaven is, whereever Jesus is. The living God. That is my faith and was my Dad's. Something unusual about my Dad. He seemed to die rather peacefully. No death throws. No gasping. He broke out in a cold sweat after they did a defibrillator shock. I'm not sure that helped, since about 20 or so hours earlier they shocked him, which caused him to going into cardiac arrest, before which, he was normal except for abnormal heart rhythm, which may have been electrolyte imbalance. And only about 60 minutes before all that early morning clamor to end his life and give up on him, he was awake, looking at me, and looking at the male nurse before the shift change. I forgot to mention that. The male nurse had adamantly told me he was in a coma. But I had sat with my dad, holding his hand for about half and hour, maybe longer, and my dad awoke and was looking at me, struggling to speak it seemed, and seeming to feel discomfort. The male nurse saw him looking at me. He looked at me with loving eyes. The male nurse got a flashlight and shined it in my dad's eyes and loudly asked my dad several times , Do you know your son is here? Do you remember you sons? Do you remember his name? He asked my dad, on a ventilator, Stick out your tongue if you understand me. My dad stuck out his tongue twice. About 20 minutes later the shift changed. Later I realized that the new shift of nurses and the doctor probably did not know what happened.

I just want you to know that the hope I cling to is that, while the matter is out of our hands as we are not Creator God, and it has occured to me that I have no idea, not only how to raise the dead and bring back my dad, I have zero way to keep a spirit, that is, to keep my dad's own true spirit. But I know that Jesus, when he raised Lazerus, his friend, from the dead, he clearly told Martha, his friend, "I am the resurrection."

nd when Jesus died on that terrible cross for us all, he said, "Father, into thy hands I commend my spirit."

Jesus trusted his Father, God, with his very spirit. I trust God with my spirit, and with my Dad's.

FibetyJibets, July 2, 2026

I was and still am interested in your 9 struggles as someone claiming autism, because I had hoped to read of someone telling of real autism, of maladaptive behaviors. Droves of people around the world are now claiming autism on flimsy masking and other vague and non-autistic reasons meant to pass as autistic, while simultaneously, at times, talking about passing as normal by masking.

The difficulty completing tasks quickly is plausible as an autistic impairment, or part of autistic impairment. Beyond that your paywall, and mediums paywall darked out your writing.

A curious fact about medium and their paywall and model for making medium a writers platform is that by demanding and facilitating that authors demand a membership to lift the paywall makes medium a platform that deflects readers who do not write, which are legion(many).

Why doesn't medium just pay according to writing , but let everyone read freely whether they know how or what to write or not. So sad.

But on the one particular element that you wrote, above even the masking red flag for me, was the red flag of "behind closed doors".

True, real, actual, clinical, authentic autism is hidden from ignorant people who are blind and willfully blind to it, but such autism is NOT EVER, always behind closed doors, and just mentioning autism being behind closed doors, as if one with autism can contain true autism and only have it behind closed doors is a RECURRING, nonsensical red flag that shows up again and again on platforms and dialog from from people asserting their masking type autism, which is not autism.

You may have autism. I don't know. But if you have autism, it is not at all by so-called masking.

FibetyJibets, July 2, 2026

Edited. A comment to Monica Selo

I was and still am interested in your 9 struggles as someone claiming autism, because I had hoped to read of someone telling of real autism, of maladaptive, norm-clashing, norm-breaking, abnormal behaviors. Droves of people around the world are now claiming autism on flimsy masking and other vague and non-autistic reasons meant to pass as autistic, while simultaneously, at times, talking about passing as normal by masking.

The difficulty completing tasks quickly is plausible as an autistic impairment, or part of autistic impairment. Beyond that your and mediums paywall darked out your writing.

A curious fact about medium and their paywall model for making medium a writers platform is that by demanding and facilitating membership to lift the paywall makes medium a platform that deflects readers who do not write, which are legion(many).

Why doesn't medium just pay according to writing , but let everyone read freely whether they know how or what to write or not? So sad.

But on the particular element that you wrote, above even the masking red flag for me, was the red flag of "behind closed doors".

True, real, actual, clinical, authentic autism is hidden from ignorant people who are blind and willfully blind to it, but the abnormalities and maladaptive behaviors of autism are NEVER, always behind closed doors; and just mentioning autism being behind closed doors, as if one can contain and suppress true autism and only have it behind closed doors is a RECURRING, nonsensical red flag that shows up again and again on platforms and dialog from from people asserting their masking type autism, which is not autism.

You may have autism. I don't know. But if you have autism, it is not by so-called masking of purported autism, as many assert they do, while in reality they try to pass as autistic with many empty and clever words of self-deception and deception, hoping for affirmation of their masking talk to constitute autism.

FibetyJibets, July 2, 2026

Picturing Sheldon, from the BIG BANG situation comedy tv show is not something to lay at the door of autism "science", nor the door of the DSM and medical scrutiny of autism. Neither is Rainman, though Rainman, unlike Sheldon, portrays someone with autism by maladaptive, abnormal, norm-clashing, norm-breaking, disabling behaviors and impairments, which are not in Sheldon in Big Bang theory show, and which probably never calls Sheldon autistic.

But I picture several girls. One was on the children's unit with me when I was hospitalized. Her name was Doris. She spoke with echolalia in most things she said. Otherwise she said very short, simple things like "Daddy's gone." Her dad died while we were hospitalized together.

I also think of the girl on the YouTube video , around ten years old, who is is pajamas and hand mitts to keep her from harming her hands. She never utters a words, but she vocalizes for a few minutes as she keeps vocalizing what seems to be extreme discomfort, pain, and anguish while she repeatedly squirms, screams and bites her hands repeatedly.

This video is easy to find if you search autistic girl biting her hands.

I also think of the old black and white films of children who were institutionalized of real, authentic, actual, truthfully autistic boys and girls from the 1950's who were filmed to teach others about autism around 70 to 75 years ago. The girls and boys in these films are all rocking together , since they were herded together. Not because they were trying to interact or connect, but because they were hospitalized together.

FibetyJibets, July 2nd, 2026

Here's a question: What AI can communicate at kid level academically? They can't. AI does not explain the vocabulary words, math symbols, math terms, math methods, technical terms, abbreviation, anachronyms, and lots of others things with being promoted to reduce it by several grade levels, and with multiple prompts and dicting and redirecting it to define, explain, not leave out explanations and definitions, and to simply and restate things so a child can understand, or an adult beginner or novice on some subject or combination of overlapping subjects.

And what third fourth fifth sixth or seventh grader is articulate enough to deal with this and ask for AI to simplify and explain it's Greek and high tech college professor vocabulary ?

FibetyJibets, July 7th, 2026

The damsel said she only wants to lay down on the warmth of rocks, of rivers where the swampy bog, is habitation good for crocks.

FibetyJibets, July 7th, 2026

The "pieta" sculpture by Michealangelo is magnificent. But it is lacking proportion for some reason . He probably just did such a complex work that the proportion was off because it was hard to get right. The mother is oversized for her son, Jesus. Or Jesus is undersized for his mother. It's good though. No denying that. Beautiful and well done.

FibetyJibets, July 7th, 2026

I think that at times, especially if someone is having bowel problems, maybe discomfort, maybe psychological issues combined, they strip nude to poop in order to allow their self to relax more so they can manage to poop, because they are having difficulty relaxing and pooping, though they need to, because of constipation, cramps, feeling shy, despite the seeming contradiction, and not able relax. That is my guess. Do they possibly have autism? People with autism have autism because of maladaptive, norm-clashing, norm-breaking, abnormal behaviors that do not blend in with common norms.

FibetyJibets, July 7th, 2026

Edited on July 8, 2026Many people have assumed that autistic children and adults hate noise and touch, but upon further inquiry, with a little probing, it turns out usually that that is not true, just a stupid oversimplified assumption. If the autistic has a cat they love to pet and enjoys when they control their own radio listening and their own noise making, the assumption falls apart. The truth is that the autistic person hates unwanted, uninvited noises and touches of other people, and other such uninvited things. It could be that you do have feelings that seem to be lacking, but that are not easily drawn out, and that if drawn out might even gush out sometimes if you were moved enough. Some people do not track or inventory their episodes of crying during movies or troubling events. Some people have not understood compassions and troubles deeply yet, having less misfortune. Many people avoid sorrow. That is not unusual. This world is full of sorrows. And the worst sorrows will come to those who deny God and reject the reasoning of his word, that man is sinful, that sin is a destructive disease of uncleanness, and that we need a mediator and Savior to make peace with God. Jesus is that mediator and Savior. FibetyJibets, Feb. 21, 2026(edited July 8, 2026)

Regarding alienists who preceded psychiatrists.

This is really good. But mediums model blocks and encouraged blocking the ocean of mere readers. So I can only read part of it. Medium could have memberships and pay member writers without doing this paywall.

FibetyJibets, July 9, 2026

Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.

The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.

She will do him good, and not evil, all the days of her life.

She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.

She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.

She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth food to her household, and a portion to her maidens.

She considereth a field and buyeth it; with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.

She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.

She perceiveth that her merchandise is good; her lamp goeth not out by night.

She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.

She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.

She is not afraid of snow for her household; for all her household are clothed with scarlet.

She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.

Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.

She maketh fine linen and selleth it, and delivered girdles unto the merchant.

Strength and honor are her clothing, and she shall rejoice in time to come.

She openeth her mouth with wisdom, and in her tongue is the law of kindness.

She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.

Her children rise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.

Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellent them all.

Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who feareth the LORD, she shall be praised.

Give her the fruit of her hands, and let her own works praise her in the gates.

Medium and writers on it are blocking an ocean of non-writing readers with the unnecessary pay walls, which have nothing to do with membership or paying writers, who can be paid by distributing membership fees without any paywalls. FibetyJibets, July 12, 2026

😐The fight is against dishonest persons, against deceptions and deceptive persons, against confusion, error, ignorance, flippant persons, greedy persons, persons getting off on using autism to ride a wave of YouTube success, and to let autism be their style, they clothing, their hair, their jibe, the false personality maskera, their masquerade costume to online platforms.

But the answer is not to shrink autism to a form of mental retardation. Kanner did not try to do that. Neither did Asperger. Psychiatry just read Kanner's abstract. Or they scanned his words like scanning cliffnotes of Shakespeare, or some other subject, never reading or discerning or even caring what autism really is, where the wall goes to at the end of autism, where the boundaries are. Kanner was feeling around to find the walls and blinds of autism, and he was making notes. Psychiatrists in the 1980's, 1990's, 2000's just read "hand-flapping, head-banging, echolalia, rocking, spinning, and self absorption, and language problems as a prescriptive list, literally. They opened DSM, thinking they were looking for the list, prescriptively, and if they had patients assigned to them in cooperation with the mental hospitals they all partnered with who had maladaptive, abnormal, disabling, bizarre behaviors that did not prescriptively fit the list they thought pertained to the DSM regarding autism, they might have paused, reflected and discussed their patient with another doctor or psychiatrist nurse on the children's unit of the mental hospital where their patient was incarcerated and being drugged by force for childhood schizophrenia, but they thought, NAH! It's too bizarre and there's no hand-flapping as far as I can see in my visits. Can't be autism. So their child patient is assumed to have catatonic childhood schizophrenia whenever they freeze. Their child patient keeps being sent repeatedly from the inpatient mental hospital to a specialist institution to have their hearing tested in a sealed, hyperbaric chamber for sound to test their hearing again and again after many witnessed times on the children's unit of not answering, and not flinching when people clap, yell and burst a balloon behind the child when in a freeze or not answering. Autism is always dismissed for years of inpatient care in those decades.

Autism is a word that is a sum word to sum up what it is supposed to contain clinically based on clinical guidelines, stipulations, criteria and definitions, which for autism includes maladaptive, abnormal behaviors (not fitting common norms in extreme disabling ways), and other impairments that all disconnect one from others , including by will, adamant maladaptive will, not just abnormal inabilities , as Kanner and Asperger noted, and most psychiatrists disregarded and/or utterly missed, as it went over their head, and they didn't care. They were done being educated, done with school, and diagnosing children with childhood schizophrenia by simplistically calling their behaviors crazy was a lot less effort, and they lacked the integrity, common sense, drive and determination that Kanner had to try to parse out and sort and consider all the reality that made bizzare looking boundary behaviors of autistics unified by boundaries , boundary issues and vulnerability to the many violations of the world. They are full of arrogance reasoning throughout mental hospitals and the world that forcing all mentally disturbed children by shocks, forced druggings that lasted years, tethers, manhandlings, seclusion for moths at a time, segregated fraudulent special education, hospitalizations and force of tying a child to a bed all day, day after day, week after week was the tools of control of behavioral health and the other version of it called ABA to force compliance. Parents also beat their child and abused their child. Some children with autism died of abuse. My mother beat me with a three foot board for not following her angry demands. The hospital staff of the children's hospitals I was in did the whole assortment of restraining me to my bed 16 hours daily week after week until someone called a lawyer on my behalf when I was only age 13, threatening me with shocks, threatening to shock me and erase the record of it, holding me down repeatedly to force inject me with antipsychotic drugs prolixin decanoate, haldol, thorazine, atavan, and giving such drugs which major side effects on me, and during school years when it affected me too much for school which was denied in every way by fake , fraudulent and falsified school for four solid years I was hospitalized.

Yet with all this severity, the mothers who want to separate severe and profound autism would leave me out as my doctors , nurses and all the hospital staff did and as many people have actively left me out in my adulthood fighting against me to keep me from having the developmenta disability Medicaid waiver in my state of georgia , even taking it away from me after I had it a few years out of hostility towards me and hostility towards the facts of my life , which they arrogantly and corruptly deny in dishonesty and with lies that are medical malpractice , frauds and lies. No? Yes! Do you not think that can happen .

I had the Medicaid waiver in Georgia approved for me in 2003, the developmental disability autism waiver. They started letting me use it in 2006. By the beginning of 2008 they were trying to torpedo my diagnosis and my eligibity by medical malpractice, by using a psychologist who would commit medical malpractice who never met with me, a third psychologist (a skunk named David McQueeny)hired by the state of Georgia to overturn, invalidate and discredit the one they had just hired, Charles Spudic, who said ,"Do not challenge" affirming I have autism, and the one the had me thoroughly evaluated by in 2003, named Dr Genava, who said I have severe autism and mixed functioning, high IQ but low functioning like a ten year old overall. They also had McQueeny try to report a psychologist official record, which was malpractice and official government corruption, to invalidate all records of all psychiatrists that I have autism, including lying that my childhood psychiatrist , who years later overturned his own diagnosis of me having childhood schizophrenia and replacing it with autism was not valid as he was denied to be a psychiatrist because he signed Phillip Okun and, not "psychiatrist", which was literally what the corrupt department of behavioral health and developmental disabilities staff wrote in hostility against me to corruptly discriminate against me and rob me of eligibility for the dbhdd autism Medicaid waiver that I already had that they wanted to corruptly take away from me, which they did take from me.

FibetyJibets, July 13, 2026

Even God, of the Bible, Jesus Christ and his Father, require people to acknowledge our sins(Jeremiah), not make God to be, as if he is a lier that we have sinned, first John(the epistle), demanding that Jews who have rejected him say of him , Blessed is he who cometh in the name of the LORD, before they will see him again, and instructing in a chapter heavy on commanding and demanding forgiveness, that one tell a brother who offends you personally, and if he will not hear you to bring two or three witnesses and establish every word, and if he still will not hear you to tell it to the church , and if he will not hear the church to treat him as a heathen, MATTHEW 18.

Also consider two happenings in Genesis.

1. Cain killed his brother Able. God confronted Cain asking where Able , his brother, was? Dishonest Cain, dishonestly answered, Am I my brother's keeper? God did not say, I forgive you Cain. God said , Your brother's blood cries out from the earth. And then God pronounced a punishment on Cain.

And consider Joseph and his several brother's who hated him because he was more loved by their father Jacob and because of his dreams and his cost of many colors. They spoke of wanting to kill Joseph. They threw him in a pit after stripping of his cost of many colors. They sold him to slave traders and got rid of Joseph. They lied to their father Jacob that Joseph was killed and they kept their lie for years. At a point years later , a famine came and Joseph had been brought up by pharaoh from the dungeon to the throne because God was with Joseph and gave Joseph gifts of interpretations of dreams from God to Joseph. So Joseph's brothers came for food, did not recognize Joseph and Joseph tested them, whether they be "true men"(or liers). They were liers, and they did not recognize their brother or know he understood their Hebrew. They began feeling bad and figuring God was punishing them for what they did years earlier to Joseph, who was gone as far as they knew. After a while of Joseph pricking and testing them he revealed himself after they complied with his commands to bring their younger brother Benjamin and risk themselves and show if they cared for their brother Benjamin.

Later after Joseph reunited with their father, saved them by God saving them with Joseph appointed Governor, some years passed and their father Jacob died. Joseph's brother thought Joseph might kill them . But Joseph said to them matter of fact that what they did they meant for EVIL, BUT GID MEANT IT GOR GOOD TO SAVE THEM AND ALL OF THE PEOPLE OF EGYPT AND MANY OTHERS, JOSEPH SAID TO HIS BROTHERS, AM I GOD? So joseph declined to kill his brothers, though , as he had cried in the pit, and as he cried so the whole house of pharaoh heard when he revealed himself to his brothers, he wept and loudly wailed and cried loudly when his father died who he was robbed by his brothers of being with for years. But he did put away all vengeance and was kind and good to his brother's despite their evil to him.

FibetyJibets, July 13, 2026

So you were absorbed with an ant, and not fully formed as a child(Who is?); what's autistic? Autism is a disability based on disabling behaviors and fitting DSM guides, definition, criteria, stipulation. I only read to the paywall.

FibetyJibets, July 14, 2026

Everyone is sowing some seed into some soil, including the soil of their own heart and that of others. A man reaps what he sows, whether good or evil. Both good and evil can be overturned by repentance of sins and evil, or by forsaking the paths of life. God has made this apparently a universal law of time and eternity. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life.

FibetyJibets, July 14, 2026

It was very long for the early am time I started reading it. But it seemed to say, from what I read, that the lesson you are teaching all readers, is that everyone you were ever kind to was toxic, draining you, and that you were used by everyone you ever helped, listened to or showed kindness, and we all should consider , by the Gemini generated image, and your written message, not fixing any problem, not straightening anything out, perhaps even if we made the problem, because every demand, request , pressure is toxic.

Does that sum it up? Or was most of it about your ex husband? That also seemed like a possible subtext because of how you wrote of him and his alcoholism.

Energy was such a focus, I can't help wonder if you have a job in which you seem customer to be toxic, or if you serve the public in a government job , if you count the public you serve as toxic for asking you to straighten out things that are part of your job, but you count every call and request or demand toxic. Or if you are a healthcare worker, such as a nurse I wonder if you consider all your patients and all your responsibilities toxic.

Or any job, such as cooking and serving food, do you consider customers who demand their pork chop cooked and not raw toxic for complain if their pork chop is raw? Seems you could have this attitude at in any job, whatever work you do, counting every complaint as toxic, noone as legitimate.

When I have time and get some rest I might read the rest, but right now it's draining my energy.

I am all for boundaries by the way. That's what drew me in to read your piece. And I understand that some people are toxic by threats, lies, dishonesty, hateful words

But you are counting people toxic for seeking kindness, help, and for needing a listening ear, because they drain your energy by every kindness you show. That's like calling Oliver Twist and Tiny Tim toxic persons, which sounds like Scroug.

This has no criticism of resting or taking a break or withdrawing, Jesus Christ himself did to get away because people pressed to get near him, to be healed. But Jesus did not call such people toxic.

FibetyJibets, July 16, 2026

I believe you underestimate the goodness of a friend in this world, and the friendship of a friend in this world.

I could only read to the paywall where you said you don't think it meant something when your friend previously bought and brought you soup because she did not call for eleven weeks and cancelled plans twice. So that first part is all I am responding too.

May I suggest that you may need to offer more flexibility instead of any rigid calendar scheduled meeting on your monthly planner or your weekly planner. Grant you, you do need to plan it on your calendar, monthly or weekly, but keep it loose, flexible, fluid, open , not to slotting in YOUR TIME SLOT THAT YOU PRICE TAG, as so many do. Maybe you're not lawyerish with friends and family. Some family hate their own brother, disown them, and literally tell them to not address them as brother, and tell them to schedule it at their office if you want to speak to them. My brother disowned me after my dad died, and said so repeatedly, because , as me repeatedly mocked me for having received support for decades due to my disability, and derided me for it, and took up a smear campaign with his viperous wife to false accusations and many dishonest lies and evil words, digs, taunts, threats, etc, mocking , showing contempt repeatedly, condemning me for wanting any support, and I mean crumbs of support , such as about $5,000 or even $2,000 out of the estate or the sale of the house that was appraised at about half a million, which I got zero from despite being supported with small potions for years and my dad wanting my brother to help me, which he could have done as executor without a penny of his own money; besides all that they threw away hundreds of dollars of food in my dad's and mothers house and changed the locks rather than let me have it on lies that because they had to sell it they could not wait for me to get the food.

Do my point id that your friend was not leveling hateful accusations, threats, mean-spirited words full of hate, wrecking ball words and dart after dart of haraunhing smears, derisive mocking false accusations and venom. In comparison, your friend was just a lovely person who is busy and still cares about you, but has her own life and needs. Lots of friendships are marginal but very real. Don't forsake your friend is my advice.

FibetyJibets, July 16, 2026

To a woman on medium(Deb Murphy) more edited below this draft.

😐Nice piece in a trying to help other people way, and seems to have good logic, except the dorsal vagal freeze collapse part. That I think can't be right, because a physical freeze is literally becoming immobile and unable to move out of fear, not living in clutter. The explanation of living in clutter as protection, a wall, a defense, to feel safe, for comfort of keeping other people away is very reasonable. All of that is BOUNDARIES as you describe it TO PROTECT THE INNER SELF. You keep people at a distance so they cannot violate you emotionally, mentally, boundary-wise, self-wise, peace-wise and spirit-wise. Boundaries have been expanded. So your writing piece is very coherent if viewed as being about needing, making, and keeping boundaries of SELF-PROTECTION. Frankly, I had not considered my own major clutter and hoarding of newspapers in boxes , etc to be a major manefestation of my own need for self-protection, though I am acutely aware of my lifelong need for self-protection, which I have had since childhood. And I was indeed abused through my entire childhood from when I was slapped by my mother repeatedly in the crib through threats and abuse, beatings with a three foot board before I was hospitalized, and certain regular haranguing, threats and hostilties from her that continued until I was no longer in my parents houses at age 25. The emotional and verbal abuse of my mother did not end at 25 either. And in my childhood I was also abused for years by violent , mean bullies, and by other adults in a children's unit of a mental hospital, in my childhood, held down repeatedly, restrained for whole days to a bed , wrists and ankles tied to my bed, 15, 16 hours a day at age 13, until a staff person called a lawyer on my behalf after a few weeks, and also held down repeatedly and injected with antipsychotics at age 13 and 14 by force, which caused forced severe side effects, an allergic reaction, tardive dyskenesia, spasmodic torticulous, akathesia, life-threatening fever or possibly "malignant fever syndrome" where they took me off the drugs, had my tonsils removed and I was in bed left to sleep with little care for about a week, not in a medical hospital where I should have been , possibly being monitored in intensive care. After I survived the fever they started dragging me again. Years later my childhood psychiatrist admitted they made mistakes and overturned his diagnosis of childhood schizophrenia, which was the basis of the assaults if the forced drugs, and write a diagnosis of autism. So I do well understand growing up with the need for self-protection, and for boundary freezes, which are autistic boundary-making adaptations, maladaptive by common norms, because the autistic person refuses to move or respond, and is misinterpreted as catatonic by medical doctors and nurses, and in medical literature and the DSM itself, citing catatonia associated as a feature of autism, interpreted as involuntary, in error.

FibetyJibets, July 18, 2026

To Deb Murphy on medium. This draft is more and better edited.

Nice piece in a [trying to help other people] way, and seems to have good logic, except the dorsal vagal freeze collapse part. That, I think, can't be right, because a physical freeze is literally becoming immobile and unable to move, out of fear, not by living in clutter. The explanation of living in clutter as protection(of self), a wall, a defense, to feel safe, for comfort of keeping other people away is very reasonable. All of that is BOUNDARIES, according as you have tried to describe it, TO PROTECT THE INNER SELF. You keep people at a distance, and walked off, making no room for them, because you cannot trust anyone, so they cannot violate you emotionally, mentally, boundary-wise, self-wise, peace-wise and spirit-wise. Boundaries have been expanded. So your writing piece, to me, and in my opinion, is coherent if viewed as being about needing, making, and keeping boundaries of SELF-PROTECTION.

Frankly, I had not considered my own major clutter and hoarding of newspapers in boxes , etc, etc, to be a major manefestation of my own need for self-protection; though I am acutely aware of my lifelong need for self-protection, which I have had since childhood.

And I was indeed abused through my entire childhood from when I was slapped by my mother repeatedly in the crib through threats and abuse, beatings with a three foot board before I was hospitalized, and certain regular haranguing, threats and hostilties from her that continued until I was no longer in my parents houses at age 25. The emotional and verbal abuse of my mother did not end at 25 either. And in my childhood I was also abused for years by violent , mean bullies, and by other adults in a children's unit of a mental hospital, in my childhood, held down repeatedly, restrained for whole days to a bed , wrists and ankles tied to my bed, 15, 16 hours a day at age 13, until a staff person called a lawyer on my behalf after a few weeks, and also held down repeatedly and injected with antipsychotics at age 13 and 14 by force, which caused forced severe side effects, an allergic reaction, tardive dyskenesia, spasmodic torticulous, akathesia, life-threatening fever or possibly "malignant fever syndrome" where they took me off the drugs, had my tonsils removed and I was in bed left to sleep with little care for about a week, not in a medical hospital where I should have been , possibly being monitored in intensive care. After I survived the fever they started dragging me again. Years later my childhood psychiatrist admitted they made mistakes and overturned his diagnosis of childhood schizophrenia, which was the basis of the assaults if the forced drugs, and write a diagnosis of autism.

So I do well understand growing up with the need for self-protection, and for boundary freezes(not vagal or amgdala freezes), which are autistic boundary-making adaptations, maladaptive by common norms, because the autistic person refuses to move or respond, and is misinterpreted as catatonic by medical doctors and nurses, and in medical literature and the DSM itself, citing catatonia associated as a feature of autism, interpreted as involuntary, in error.

FibetyJibets, July 18, 2026

😐To SoulSetu

Beautifully, exceptionally, wonderfully, insightfully written! One of the best, the very best things I ever read on the truths of deeply needed boundaries of self-protection, and on a true friend "who sticketh closer than a brother", who understands, senses, respects, accepts the boundary needs graceously, in such contrast to treacherous persons, family especially, who caused such deep need for protective boundaries, who deeply violated trust in childhood, and/or in adulthood, by deeply violating words and deeds.

FibetyJibets, July 18, 2026

To: "Noisy skin bag(I hate that name.)

I read it. In fact, as I read it with the link for non-members, it sounded, or read, familiar for part of it. So, somehow I read it before, or something very similar. What you wrote is very complicated. I cannot give much opinion right now. If they all had trouble sorting it out, and you as well, I cannot make any very useful comment after one read without thinking much about it. Maybe later. But I presume you are a woman, which was hidden by your handle/pseudonym writer-name. I thought you were a guy. Now I think you are a girl, if I can remember that.

I mean I agree that it turned out that they probably overreacted in your case, that they run roughshod over people sometimes, child protective services that is, that they fail to help those who are abused and killed by parents, but overreact in other cases, cause trouble and being overly punitive or cotrolling. But they have to sort out if a child is being abused, and the worst failure is failing to save a child from horrific and chronic abuse and regular mistreatment that injures a child severely mentally, emotionally or physically. So they have their work cut out for them if they are competent to do it.

FibetyJibets, July 19, 2026

😐Another comment to Deb Murphy on another clutter and trauma post of hers on medium.

Memory (ies) of wrongdoing(s) is and/or are a measure of justice for victims or extreme wrongdoings that injured the victim mentally, spiritually, emotionally, physically, educationally, career-wise, financially, reputationally, etc. Look at what all is saved from the Holocaust. Look at all the criminal records and child abuse records saved by governments. The injustices in government justice systems are another side of it. But people who are victims of crime may be buried, may be silenced, may be pressured and threatened to keep quiet, but a big function of good government justice is to figure up the buried bodies that are hidden, and to uncover child abuse, rape, murder, kidnappings, trafficking of persons, frauds, robberies, thefts, and to expose them and rebuke and reprove them and those guilty of crimes that afflicted another person injuriously.

FibetyJibets, July 19, 2026

Disney animated movies have countless hours of high end art, loaded with skill, more than most AI art, and they have no conscience, no life of their own. They are just a string of images on a reel that run to form an animated movie. AI is not alive.

FibetyJibets, July 20, 2026

😐To Deb Murphy

Circadian rhythms are involved in extreme tiredness at least twice a day, as far as I know; first in late afternoon, especially near sunset, and second, between about 10 pm and midnight or thereabout. I am no expert, but you should consider researching circadian rhythms, which are tied to our sleep cycles, and other big things, like the sun setting and probably the rotation of the earth.

FibetyJibets, July 22, 2026

The way you're putting is like some guy suggested women should be forced in every way to have babies, by first being forced to have sex. Then I read that he pointed out that women who had already willingly had sex and got pregnant was his aim, that they, having had sex willingly, should be accountable and have the baby, and that then the birthrate would improve . And a baby's life not stolen by a selfish woman.

Why is any woman who would kill her baby having unprotected sex and not demanding that their sex partner wear a condom?

It's time for honesty.

FibetyJibets, July 22, 2026

To Barbara Powell on medium

I haven't heard any abortion news on fox news that I recall. It's seems you have something against fox news. I do not consider fox news to be honest . But regarding child poverty and medical care lacking for children, that reaching and stretching as an excuse for killing one's own baby. What mother would look down at her pregnant belly and say, I live in poverty, it's better you be terminated than live in poverty in America. We might be on food stamps, WIC, Medicaid and have problems financially. Best thing is to abort you. I doubt any mother in her right mind would abort her baby dye to poverty.

But you dodged the question in your reply. Why wouldn't a woman having sex use things to prevent pregnancy, such as a contraceptive diaphragm , birth control pills and demand the guy wear a condom or no sex? You got no good answer because it's out of your control. Nevertheless, that is a worldwide fact. Even in Africa, those people are getting Aids disease and Aids/HIV pregnancies because they do not refrain from sex when no condems and birth control are available, and some loudmouths want to blame America for cutting off the free condom supply. They can stop sex their own selves until they can buy a condom. And they can marry instead of adulterous sleeping around with multiple whores. This true all over the world. Too much adultry and whoring. People need to marry and have children or buy contraceptives and prevent conception.

FibetyJibets, July 23, 2026

Edited😐 I haven't heard any abortion news on fox news that I recall. It's seems you have something against fox news. I do NOT, AGAIN, I DO [[[NOT]]] consider fox news to be honest . If they say anything true, it is filthy rags of truth on top of dishonest reporting. But regarding child poverty and medical care lacking for children, that reaching and stretching as an excuse for killing one's own baby. What mother would look down at her pregnant belly and say, I live in poverty, it's better you be terminated than live in poverty in America. We might be on food stamps, WIC, Medicaid and have problems financially. Best thing is to abort you. I doubt any mother in her right mind would abort her baby dye to poverty.

FibetyJibets, July 23, 2026

😐To Barbara Powell

I haven't heard any abortion news on fox news that I recall. It's seems you have something against fox news. I DO [[[NOT]]] consider fox news to be honest . If they say anything true, it is filthy rags of truth on top of their past history pipeline of other dishonest reporting. But regarding child poverty and medical care lacking for children, that's reaching and stretching as an excuse for killing one's own baby. What mother would look down at her pregnant belly and say, I live in poverty, it's better you be terminated than live in poverty in America? We might be on food stamps, WIC, Medicaid and have problems financially. Best thing is to abort you. I doubt any mother in her right mind would abort her baby due to poverty.

If anyone needs to feel better and get relief from guilt of aborting their baby, that's the department of Jesus Christ. He came to take away all the sin, guilt, wrath, shame, reproach, which he alone can do, not only for an unnecessary abortion, but "all manner of sin and blasphemy, except blasphemy of the Holy Spirit" , which is probably rejecting(not receiving) Jesus, as acknowledged Savior and Lord, and refusing to believe in him no matter what the Bible sais or how well reasoned the Bible tells of Jesus, to the point of no return upon death. Jesus is God. He took it all. All the sins of the whole world. The evils, the murders, the lies, the thefts, the frauds, the hates, the cruelties, the assaults and abuses, rapes, injustices, atrocities, neglects, hypocrisies, blasphemies, and whatever was grevious, injurious wrongdoings and sins, and he put himself on an execution cross to pay the debt of all of it for us for eternity Godward, towards God, to redeem the ungodly, which is all of us, not just those with minor little trifling nickel and dime sins, but the worst. So don't neglect so great a salvation. Today is the day to receive it.

FibetyJibets, July 23, 2026

To "Petra" on medium

😐There's just too much dishonesty in the world 🌎.

There is a song that goes "What the world 🌎 needs now, is love, sweet love. Love's the only thing that there's just too little of."

But that's not true, however lovely it sounds.

What the world needs now is truth and honesty.

There's just too little truthfulness in this world, with dentists, police, educators, lawyers, judges, government employees, everyone of every age of all walks of life, with very few exceptions in all of history. We can do a lot better.

FibetyJibets, July 24, 2026

😐Governments tax people. However, governments serve people too, and people also serve governments, directly and indirectly. Mostly indirectly by contributing to goods, services, the economy, the knowledge, the good, such as doing any good to any poor, sick, injured, needy, which also includes caring for one's own children who are citizens. What we can do is influence and steer the government to care about our welfare and to care about the poor, the needy, and about what is right, true, and not overburdening us. One thing , for example is student loan interest, which is over a trillion dollars on federal loans, such as Stafford and Oerkins loans. That should be zero. That interest should be eliminated. And not half the loans should be made on top of unpaid loans. People should get one interest free federal student loan, and pay it off before getting another. That alone would eliminate a trillion in debt if student loan interest were removed and forbidden by law, not allowing anyone to charge interest on any student loan, or capping it at 1%maximum. Property taxes should also be limited. And property tax for closure should be disallowed. People should not be kicked out of their home for inability to pay property taxes, which are often way over double what is right and true, based on tax assessors fraudulent tax assessments, which they fake, and dishonestly do nationwide.

FibetyJibets, July 25, 2026

😐The desire to go to the moon and to Mars is like trying to go to the bottom of the ocean to have a look around. Very, extremely life-threatening, dangerous and hazardous in the extreme. It could be compared to preparing to walk a tightrope from one world trade center tower to the other and back , which one guy actually did before they were destroyed by Islamic murderers with hijacked planes.

There's no air on the moon, and maybe none on Mars. It's a deathtrap. Go , and take portable life sustaining things with you, and like the submarine than keeps death from swallowing you, your spaceship keeps back death. It's not like a car, where you can park the car, get out and breath air, and walk around fairly safe in many habitable places on earth.

The entire moon is a hazardous place.

The entire planet of Mars is hazardous.

Getting to either is extremely hazardous, like the tight rope walk between two multi-thousand floor towers, in the air, no parashoot, as that would probably interfere with the tightrope walk. Either way, one wrong move, and splat. Blood on the ground.

Just don't go.

FibetyJibets, July 27, 2026

😐Diversity or neurodiverity is not the nexus of autism. Maladaptive disability is. FibetyJibets, July 28, 2026

😐The expectation is that 1.) the guy that a late teen, early twenties girl wants, not for love, but for youth, looks, and money, is also late teen early 20's and has a car and success, but she can't find him, as he is a unicorn, like Justin Bieber, instead of the guys who actually have success and money at age 35, 40, 45 , who are often viewed as offensive and a wrong fit for the 18- 24 girls, who expect any guy they date to have a car, money and success while being about 18 to 25, ------or 2.) girls reject that and go bed hopping and marriage hopping for a "sugar daddy", not love, with the 40 and 45 year olds if the 45 year olds are rich enough, never considering finding someone they might try to love and marry in many cases, because they are not seeking love either way, from the 18 year old with body they find acceptable, nor love from the 40 year old with the money they want to support them. Instead, as noted by a song, they're "cold as ice". How many girls are trying to look for love, I wonder? They seem to be rejecting young men for lack of riches, and rejecting rich men for lack of youth, using either one, despising both, never marrying either, never loving either. FibetyJibets, July 28, 2026

😐Some people are deeply sentimental.

They treasure things they have been given, and things that they have seen in their home(s) growing up, in early adulthood and later adulthood, that were their parents things, because they were part of their childhood and adulthood in the rooms of their parents house, in the kitchen, in the entry way, in the hallway, in the living rooms and dining rooms they have known.

Some people treasure gifts from other people.

Other person live their childhood disregarding all those things, not seeing them, not caring, oblivious, seeing no value in them, especially to them in unsentimental ways such as monetary.

Even some deeply dishonest, abusive(narcissistic)persons, who willingly smash treasures of a loved one(their own child) into shards, in your face, in acts of abuse, to hurt you vindictively, knowing it was particularly treasured as a love gift(from daddy) that a loved one gave you, apparently treasure gifts for years and decades that they have received themselves, in some cases. Like my mother. People are a mix of good and evil too, Jeckle and Hyde, especially dishonest abusive people who are your mother or father, or a sibling.

Some people, who love dishonesty and afflicting others with lies and dishonest words, are not very sentimental at all.

This is not necessarily the explanation why some children might not want their parents things, but it does seem to fit some people who have this combination of abusive dishonest words that reflect their general life and disregarding the value of all relationships and sentimental things, as they rack up failed marriage after marriage, and literally destroy their relationship with you with their many, many deeply harmful, destructive, hateful, dishonest abusive threats, digs, accusations , and mean-spirited loveless words, as my brother and his viperous fourth wife did after my dad died recently. Both before my dad died and after, my brother express how he did not want anything of my dad's and mothers. He made bunches of extreme threats over things I salvaged from his plans to trash almost everything, and over the gift from my dad and mother of their car.

My brother and his wife threatened to have me prosecuted over the car I was given, other items, and changed the locks , threatening to prosecute me if I broke their newly, suddenly installed, forcing me out, house locks, which locks they illegally changed, under the knowledge that I was living there with permission from my mother, and they lied to me, and told me by text, after dumpstering many things in a rented dumpster full of family photos, framed art, and many things, that I had access to get into the house again through one door to the kitchen, through the garage, to get the hundreds of dollars of food in the pantry for a day or two, knowing it was still locked. When I texted back that they were lying and they knew it was still locked, they texted that I had had my chance already as their answer to my pointing out they were lying. They did not care about me, about sentiment, about family photos, about treasured gifts, about relationships; only about an opportunity to be in control, to hurt someone, me, and to be able to get off on being destructive to a relationship, as by brother has been to three previous wives before marrying a fellow viper.

FibetyJibets, July 29, 2026

What a loaded topic! I can only read to the unnecessary paywall. You may not realize, because medium doesn't either, that medium can pay writers with zero paywalls. That would open readership to a sea of people, including a billion young persons and all ages who are not ready to write much. Or who just want to read. And to those very low on money, and not savvy or trusting of paying for anything online.

FibetyJibets, July 30, 2026

😐To "Noisy skin bag", black, "trans, guy or girl on medium. I cannot tell which for sure.

😐It’s you promulgating and advocating for a segregated nation and country of masking-type autistics, not real autistics; and it’s not “white folk” pushing for it, but you.

You are the one out in the weeds of boundariless inclusion of whole races in whole countries, such as Japan.

It fits your moralizing crap about neurodiversity, autism, lgbtq, trans, black haters of all whites, and the supposed diversity and inclusion of the morally contaminated DEI movement being on right side of history.

Have you considered that it’s not your normal behavior that you call masking autism that has caused people to reject you, but your sexual orientation talk that you can’t keep to yourself. I can only wonder how much you trespass and press on others with your sexual orientation talk as you interact. Maybe you should mask your sexual orientation that you keep inserting .

Autism masking narratives are so full of deceits. I wonder how many layers upon layers of deceits you are using.

FibetyJibets, Aug. 1st, 2026

😑I think that "3-D" objects are actually in multiple dimensions simultaneously, just as a "3-D" object is a combo of 1 and 2, folded to make 3 Dimensions, but that what is presumed 3-D is steps past 3-D.

What is presumed "One D", the line, may be 3-D, or 4-D, or even 5-D, not 1-D.

Think of it this way: What comes first, typing "3-D", or the code, hardware, and software that allow you to type anything?

That is my view.

FibetyJibets, August 8, 2026

What is presumed "One D", the line, may be 3-D, or 4-D, or even 5-D, not 1-D.

Think of it this way: What comes first, typing "3-D", or the code, hardware, and software that allow you to type anything? And someone might say , But math came before the software, hardware, etc, and language too. And that’s true, but we, as humans, have ability to do math, and we are in high order 3-D dimension. So, one might say, which first, chicken or egg. But I say, human or God. One had to start this. And it’s not man.

That is my view.

FibetyJibets, August 8, 2026

To author of "silent pages"

How would you describe your writing? Is it supposed to be about you partly, part fiction, part parable, proverb, what? Seems your trying to say something, but it goes into what seems a story mode. And, I should, for clarity, explain that I don't mean this straightforward piece on getting the ambiguous warning of an unexplained policy or rule. I mean I clicked on your substack link and was wading into one of your writing pieces, and it was not easy for me to tell what it was about. This was partly because of use a a third person in the piece, "she".

Aug. 9, 2026

😐To Callum Maystone,

I wrote a couple of perfect number pieces, which have not been notice much I guess because I had not tagged them for perfect numbers as a topic until today, though they are pinned to my profile, FibetyJibets.

Anyway, some of your figures are wrong, such as 3 and 12 being perfect numbers. They are not. But 6, 28, 496, and 8128 are perfects. Also 33, 550, 336 I think, off the top of my head, without looking.

The thing about perfect number is they all divide by four, above 6, from 28 to infinity.

They are also all mod 4 (28 and up), 6 (496 and bigger), 7(28 and internally), and 8(496 and up).

The internal mod 7, or multiples of seven in perfect numbers above 28, is that all perfect number to infinity are even, and are internally an odd or even multiple of 7, plus 1, if the multiple of 7 is odd, or plus 6, if the multiple of seven is even.

All perfect numbers including 6 are triangular. They stack in tetrahedral, tetrahedron stacks. They all form triangles and tetrahedrons to infinity. And tetrahedrons pack tightly into clusters of 20 icosahedrons, which also pack tightly. There is no room for phantom odd perfect numbers.

Therefore perfect numbers can literally be represented as triangles and tetrahedrons.

Perfect numbers can also be represented as squares and cubes. Like with triangles and tetrahedrons, substitute each integer with one square or cube. Viola.

As the number 6, which has/is 6 intergers (6 ones) can be represented by six triangles or one 4-sided tetrahedron and two triangles, the 6 can, likewise, be represented by 6 squares and/or one, 6-sided cube.

Not only do perfect numbers stack and cluster, they ring too, whether in 2-D rings or 3-D rings of triangles or squares, and cube rings also.

But cubes also cluster into ever larger larger cube clusters. Perfect number in cubes leave cube remainders. But they are cubes.

With tetrahedrons, perfect numbers divide with no remainder, though there is a remainder of tetrahedrons when dividing off icosahedrons clusters of 20 tetrahedrons.

FibetyJibets, Aug. 9, 2026

Mersenne primes are internal in every perfect number.

Odd and even multiples of 7, plus 1 for odd multiples of 7, and 6 for even multiples of 7 also are internal, within each perfect number.

The mersenne primes show up as a metaphorical closed door.

This is how mersenne primes show up in perfect numbers:

• 28 ÷ 4 = 7. --- 7 is a mersenne.

• 496 ÷ 4 = 124. 124 ÷ 4 = 31.

--- 31 is a mersenne.

• 8128 ÷ 4 = 2032. 2032 ÷ 4 = 508.

508 ÷ 4 = 127. --- 127 is a mersenne.

• 33,550,336 ÷ 4 = 8,387,584.

8,387,584 ÷ 4 = 2,096,896.

2,096,896 ÷ 4 = 524,224.

524,224 ÷ 4 = 131,056.

131,056 ÷ 4 = 32,764

32,764 ÷ 4 = 8191

8191 is a mersenne prime.

FibetyJibets, August 10, 2026

😐I doubt that you're a "femcel", which is a comeback to women, who give off an offensive, offending vibe, with offensive offending words, directed at men, which women, themselves, draw ire by use insulting words towards men, such as "incel", to belittle, degrade, tear down, hurt, harm, injure, bully, berate, bash men.

But the word "incel" , whenever used as a slang term to insult any man, was never born of any man's frustration.

It was born of the wicked disregard of the fact that man, every man, is made in the image of God, whenever women hurl that dig at a man of any age, to deride him and put him down. Especially if he has done no harm or wrong to the woman throwing that insult dart.

The slang "incel" is not a statement of fact, but a narcissist slander and a bully's jab.

A lady wouldn't spit "incel" at any guy; except maybe a rapist or kidnapper.

If you were exchanging insults with the guy, talking down to him, that is his learned or found way to throw mud back at you.

If you love to throw mud, sticks and stones, people will pick up mud, sticks and stones to throw back at you.

Best just to leave them on the ground because they might pick up an insult that cuts to the quick, that goes deep in your soul.

FibetyJibets, Aug 10, 2026

😐Neither term is about fact. Both incel and femcel. Both are said as cruel insult. Both terms are gaslighting to get you to question yourself, your value and worth as a human being, and your degree of God given beauty, and are devoid of kindness. I doubt that you're a "femcel", but if you were, noone should be cruel about it. The "femcel" insult and slander, if not an unprovoked, bullying insult from a male bully, is a comeback to insult slinging women bullies, who are offensive with words like incel, directed at all men or personally and generally at one singled out man. Women, using such language, draw ire from men by using "incel" to belittle, degrade, tear down, hurt, harm, injure, bully, berate, bash men.

But the word "incel" , whenever used as a slang to insult any man, was never born of any man's frustration.

It was born of the disregard of the fact that man is made in the image of God.

Women hurl that dig at a man of any age, to deride him and put him down. If he has done no harm or wrong to the woman, why is she doing it?

The slang "incel" is not a statement of fact, but slander , a bully's jab.

A lady wouldn't spit "incel" at any guy; except maybe a rapist or kidnapper.

If you were exchanging insults with some guy, talking down to him, provoking him, "femcel" is his learned or found way to throw mud back at you.

If you didn't provoke him, that is an unusual way to wade into bullying suddenly.

If you love to throw mud, people will pick up mud to throw back at you.

Best just to leave mud on the ground.

FibetyJibets, Aug 10, 2026

😐The numbers 6, 28, 496, 8128 and [33, 550, 336 are perfects.

The thing about perfect number is that they all divide by four, above 6, from 28 to infinity.

They are also all mod 4 (28 and up), 6 (496 and bigger), 7(28 and internally), and 8(496 and up).

The internal mod 7, (multiples of seven) in perfect numbers starting with 28, is that all perfect number to infinity are even, and, except 28, (4×7) are internally an odd or even multiple of 7, plus 1, if the multiple of 7 is odd(example: 8127+1), or plus 6, if the multiple of seven is even(example: 490+6).

All perfect numbers including 6 are triangular. They stack in tetrahedral, tetrahedron stacks, like stacking ping-pong or billiard balls on a flat table. They form triangles and tetrahedrons to infinity. And tetrahedrons pack tightly into clusters of 20 icosahedrons, which also pack tightly. There is no room for odd perfect numbers.

Perfect numbers can literally be represented as triangles and tetrahedrons.

Perfect numbers can also be represented as squares and cubes. Like with triangles and tetrahedrons, you can substitute each integer with one square or cube.

The number 6, which is 6 intergers (6 ones), can be represented by six triangles or one 4-sided tetrahedron and two triangles. Alternately, the 6 can, likewise, be represented by 6 squares and/or one, 6-sided cube.

Not only do perfect numbers stack and cluster, they ring too, whether in 2-D rings triangle or square rings or 3-D rings of cubes or tetrahedrons.

Cubes also cluster into ever larger larger cube clusters, which make a shell that encloses each shell starting with the center cube. The first shell is 26 cubes that encloses the center cube; 27 total. The second shell is 98 cubes, which enclose the 27, totaling 125. This goes to infinity. These cube clusters and cube shells are not perfect numbers themselves, but they can fill up perfect numbers with cube remainders.

Perfect number in cubes leave cube remainders. But they are cubes.

With tetrahedrons, perfect numbers divide with no remainder, though there is a remainder of tetrahedrons when dividing off icosahedrons clusters of 20 tetrahedrons.

FibetyJibets, Aug. 9, 2026

😐Perfect numbers are exactly filled up and in by equal sized tetrahedrons.

They pack tightly. Each tetrahedron is made of four equilateral triangles. This exact filling of perfect numbers with tetrahedrons scales to infinity. A tetrahedron is [four] equilateral triangles (of equal lines) folded concentrically together.

The fact that perfect numbers divide by 4, again and again, until they come to four(4) equal Mersenne primes is no coincidence. Example: 496 ÷4 = 124. 124÷4= 31.

24 icosahedrons, which are clusters of 20 tetrahedrons, inhabit 480 of 496. 16 more tetrahedrons make the perfect number 496 with no dangling fraction or fragment.

Structurally, there can be no phantom odd perfect unless, you can make a 4 a 3, or a 3 into a 4, or a tetrahedron with 3 triangles instead of 4.

People speculate that there might be some astronomically big perfect number that could be odd because they see no geometrical structure filling them.

They seem mysterious and become astronomical in size as the base of a tetrahedron is larger than the apex tip.

Perfect numbers stack, tessellate, and ring as triangles and inverted triangles.

Perfect numbers as tetrahedrons cluster into icosahedrons.

This is hard to show here in text.

Try to picture upright and inverted triangles stacked or tessellated tightly as a grid of triangles.

__________∆

_______.∆∆∆∆

_____∆∆∆∆∆∆∆

Some see perfect numbers as triangular by looking at stacks of balls, but they are not as tightly packed as tetrahedrons clustered into icosahedrons.

There is internal structure in all perfect numbers forcing them to be even.

Internally, perfect numbers are all either an odd multiple of 7 plus 1, or and even multiple of 7 plus 6. Either way, this forces an even number.

Examples:

A) The "perfect" 496 is 490 +6.

490 is a multiple of 7 (7×70).

B) The "perfect" 8028 is 8022 +6.

8022 is a multiple of 7 (7000+700+280+42).

C) The "perfect" 33,550,336 is 33,550,335 +1.

33,550,335 is a multiple of 7 (28million+4.9m+630k+14k+6,300+35).

Perfect numbers ALL divide by four (4), and geometrically form an exactitude of tetrahedrons, which are four triangles each, except the starter 6, which can be viewed as either

6 triangles🔻🔺🔻🔺🔻🔺,

1 tetrahedron ∆ and two triangles🔻🔺,

(I could not find a tetrahedron emoji.)

or as 6 tetrahedrons ∆∆∆∆∆∆,

or as

6 squares⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜⬜,

1 cube📦, or

6 cubes📦📦📦📦📦📦.

Four(4) sided tetrahedrons exactly fill in all perfect numbers.

With any perfect number, you can substitute tetrahedrons for each integer.

For example: 496 tetrahedrons.

FibetyJibets, August 11, 2026

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