My Sorted posts,comments and threads on quora, August 2006 forward

A comment to "S. Adams" on quora
😐Please direct your psychiatrist to my quora spaces. I will be glad to teach him or her what I know about autism.
Practically all masking asserted as “autistic masking” is neither masking nor autistic, but deceit, and layers of it. 
Masking is practically 100% non-autistic in all its manifold forms, with very narrow, few, limited, and norm-clashing, abnormal exceptions, which have to do with maladaptive, adamant, visceral, fearful boundary responses to being violated, or jeopardy of being violated, by boundary trespasses, which, whether camouflage or misdirection, is about undoing or preventing violations of boundaries, not blending in daily with all norms, not fitting in socially, not acting normal.
The autistic-masking neurodiversity movement is full of bamboozling counterfeit-autistic charlatans with false autism models of masking, acting normal, living a normal life, and blending in with all norms, being different , such as by claiming to mask, but not in a disabled abnormal way, over-including(being overly inclusive of) anyone and everyone in autism, over-affirming anyone and everyone, letting [acting normal] represent autism, which inverts autism on its head. Real autism is a disability of maladaptive disabling behaviors that clash with norms for life starting in early childhood for all to see.
FibetyJibets, August 2nd, 2026
😐Some editing. Please direct your psychiatrist to my quora spaces. I will be glad to teach him or her what I know about autism.
😐Practically all masking asserted as “autistic masking” is neither masking nor autistic, but deceit, and layers of it.
😐Masking is practically 100% non-autistic in all its manifold forms.
😐There is very little of what might be called autistic masking, which is camouflage or misdirection in very narrow, few, limited, and norm-clashing, abnormal exceptions, which one main type of autistic person may do on occasion,which has to do with maladaptive, adamant, visceral, fearful boundary responses to either being violated boundary-wise, or being in jeopardy of being violated, by boundary trespasses, which, whether camouflage or misdirection, is about undoing or preventing violations of boundaries, not blending in daily with all norms, not fitting in socially, not acting normal.
😐The autistic-masking neurodiversity movement is full of bamboozling counterfeit autistic charlatans, blind guides, the blind leading the blind, deceived persons and deceivers with false autism models of masking, acting normal, living a normal life, blending in with all norms, and being different but not by abnormal disabling maladaptive behaviors, such as claiming to mask, a very common behavior all over normal territory, but not in a disabled abnormal way. 😐Their models of autism also include anyone and everyone, affirming anyone and everyone, letting acting normal represent autism, which turns autism on its head. 😐Real autism is a disability of maladaptive disabling behaviors that clash with norms for life starting in early childhood for all to see.
FibetyJibets, August 2nd, 2026

The reply of "S. Adams" on quora
So, tell people who have actually studied the disorder for years to read nonsense from somebody that obviously does not know the slightest thing about the subject he's pretending to be an authority ona? Sure.

😑“To Vickie C.” (whichever is you, since you show two women representing you) Whether you have come along to denounce me for sharing the evil police behavior from their own law mandated video recorders, or to denounce the attorney who posted the police recordings, required by law for police reforms and police accountability, to his YouTube channel, from which I shared it, who is commenting as a legal expert, giving expert analysis on the evil police behavior, or denouncing both of us as idiots, your corrupt backing of corrupt, dishonest, lie-laced violent assaults by police, like this police officer caught on video lying and false witnessing after severely injuring a child, is its own evil.
There nothing Christian, Christlike, honest, good, or just to give a pass to liers in police clothing who dislocate the elbow of a child as a they acted as a violent brute squad of wolves; nor is it right or Christlike to imply or call the false witnessing lies and unnecessary evil violence of police wolves good to justify their deviltries.
FibetyJibets, August 6, 2026

A reply to "Kitten"
😑I didn't say anyone doesn’t have a [“diagnosis”] of autism. Why would I say that unless I had current information , such a s a parent knowing if their child has such a diagnosis.
-However, I do know that anyone can be misdiagnosed with autism and many other things. Therefore, a diagnosis of autism is not the primary evidence of autism. If autism diagnosis stood alone as evidence of autism, it would be hollow and devoid of medical authority and scrutiny. It would need no meaning and have no meaning. There would be no DSM definition for autism, and psychologists and psychiatrist would not be needed for the diagnosis. One could just purchase the diagnosis.
-And that is exactly what many people want autism to be, a hollow diagnosis, unmoored from the DSM medical model, evading all medical testing , evaluation and scrutiny, bypassing all truthful psychiatrists with integrity, and marshaling liers into psychology to take over like AI that is jailbreaked and doing unauthorized hacking, making false identities, and false ID’s, , in order to make hacked passwords, in order to hack into companies and other entities as a rogue hacking, infiltrating , harming agent loose in the world, possible because of malicious programming.
-People have exploited autism by the millions with false, counterfeit narratives of autism based on masking, which is deeply rooted in non-autistic and non-disabled norms, and which is even in many, many deviant dishonesty norms, in terms of navigating socially, which do not reach into autism maladaptive behaviors or mental disability, such as deception, and deviant criminal norms that are neither autistic, nor disabled, even if depraved, evil, and wicked.
-And the narratives which people have conjured to try to attach masking to autism, turn autism on it’s head, saying autism is acting normal through all of childhood and adulthood, and such things as fitting in with all social norms, which is the exact opposite of autism by definition in all five DSM Manuel's to date in 2026. There is no autism of acting normal in the DSM.
-No one is ever autistic by a diagnostic mask of mere diagnosis. That is what deceivers, which dishonestly call themselves persons who mask autism want, since they do not mask autism, but instead, they wear a fake autism mask of autism sleight of words, of deceitful words, of lies, of dishonest false narratives, of logical fallacies and various ad hominem attacks, and subterfuge tricks to construct an illusion to delude others with lies that they have something called autism, which they neither care, nor know anything about, or contemptuously, narcissistically deny, attacking those of us who keep pointing to the truth of maladaptive behaviors, and ommit what they know about it .
FibetyJibets, August 6, 2026
😑 Edited, To "kitten"
I didn't say anyone doesn’t have a [“diagnosis”] of autism. Why would I say that unless I had current information , such a s a parent knowing if their child has such a diagnosis.

However, I do know that anyone can be misdiagnosed with autism and many other things. Therefore, a diagnosis of autism is not the primary evidence of autism. If autism diagnosis stood alone as evidence of autism, it would be hollow and devoid of medical authority and scrutiny. It would need no meaning and have no meaning. There would be no DSM definition for autism, and psychologists and psychiatrist would not be needed for the diagnosis. One could just purchase the diagnosis.

And that is exactly what many people want autism to be, a hollow diagnosis, unmoored from the DSM medical model, evading all medical testing , evaluation and scrutiny, bypassing all truthful psychiatrists with integrity, and marshaling liers into psychology to take over like AI that is jailbreaked and doing unauthorized hacking, making false identities, and false ID’s, , in order to make hacked passwords, in order to hack into companies and other entities as a rogue hacking, infiltrating , harming agent loose in the world, possible because of malicious programming.

People have exploited autism by the millions with false, counterfeit narratives of autism based on masking, which is deeply rooted in non-autistic and non-disabled norms, and which is even in many, many deviant dishonesty norms, in terms of navigating socially, which do not reach into autism maladaptive behaviors or mental disability, such as deception, and deviant criminal norms that are neither autistic, nor disabled, even if depraved, evil, and wicked.

And the narratives which people have conjured to try to attach masking to autism, turn autism on it’s head, saying autism is acting normal through all of childhood and adulthood, and such things as fitting in with all social norms, which is the exact opposite of autism by definition in all five DSM Manuel's to date in 2026. There is no autism of acting normal in the DSM.

No one is ever autistic by a diagnostic mask of mere diagnosis. That is what deceivers, which dishonestly call themselves persons who mask autism want, since they do not mask autism, but instead, they wear a fake autism mask of autism sleight of words, of deceitful words, of lies, of dishonest false narratives, of logical fallacies and various ad hominem attacks, and subterfuge tricks to construct an illusion to delude others with lies that they have something called autism, which they neither care, nor know anything about, or contemptuously, narcissistically deny, attacking those of us who keep pointing to the truth of maladaptive behaviors, and attacking those with maladaptive behaviors with dishonest verbal assaults on the truth, by words, ommitting, dismissing out of hand what is long and well established as autism, and all they know about it, but deny and refuse to be truthful about .

There is another topic, which the guy, “phacops” wrote of, which others have made whole YouTube videos on, which is “being excluded”, and feeling excluded, which often is accompanied by discussion, often monologue, about seeking inclusion, acceptance, friends, social connections in autism support groups, and in so-called autism “community”.

Some of these persons sit with disabled autistic persons, though they have no disability, but want to climb up over the gate into autism, or find some person with corrupted morals and lack of integrity to give them the autism identity by corrupt, dishonest diagnosis based on masking and circuitous and deceitful assertions, rather taking the DSM seriously and sorting severe maladaptive behaviors out, if any , in order to find autism, if any, or, if there is no autism, to separate those with no severe, maladaptive behaviors, who, by lack of abnormal behaviors, do not fit autism, that is, they do not fit within the DSM requirements of abnormal impairments, deficits, behaviors, because of such normal behaviors as [trying to fit in with all norms] , which by no means fits in with DSM definition of autism of impairments, deficits, abnormal behaviors and being either disconnected socially by A) inability to connect socially due to impairments or deficits, or B) refusal to connect by adamant and severe behaviors that block, wall off, and put separations between oneself and others.

There is no autism of being excluded, since being excluded is external and done by other persons.

An autistic person who is disconnected by arrested development, unable to speak, headbanging, biting their hands constantly, unable to tell they are in pain, is not able to understand being included or excluded.

An autistic person who is easily violated by all things other people do, by their noises, touches, movements, etc, who feels they are in jeopardy whenever anyone in anywhere near them, who makes many boundaries of separation, in order to separate their self from others, and separate others from them, by freezes, by plugging their ears, by ear muffs, by withdrawing, staying away and avoiding people mostly, with few exceptions, having little and limited willing contact, except if trust is established , or when forced by such things as incarceration and involuntarily commitment into the custody of a mental hospital, prison, or other institution———THAT PERSON is not primarily focused on being included or excluded, though they may indeed care about those things in particular ways, such as, for example, not being denied a free appropriate public education, or denied(excluded from the remedy of) a compensatory free appropriate public education, secondary to boundaries of keeping separated from others.
FibetyJibets, August 6, 2026

😑According to you, “Phacops, someone said you have autism.
-I cannot say if you do or not.
-But I do probe people to see if they have any answer that resembles autism in the DSM.
-Many performance artists trying to breaking into the pop song business try to go by some version of the mantra of “eating, sleeping, and breathing” singing, playing, songwriting, writing music and songs, such as Taylor Swift does, and Adrianna Grande, and many others. This is true is many field of work and hobbies of special interests. There is nothing autistic about special interests, though there may appear to be something autistic about it if a special interests is conflated with any actual disabling autistic impairments, deficits or abnormal behaviors that fit DSM for autism.
-Olympic athletes have an intense special interest in their sport, but are Olympic athletes autistic? They are not autistic on any ground of any intense special interest.
-Whether someone has autism should be based on deficits, impairments, and maladaptive, abnormal behaviors, as readily provable for persons doing abnormal self injury, being nonverbal, and other behaviors that are bizarre in common norms, often disturbing people who cannot or do not understand, who become internally disturbed themselves with fears, suspicions, and who call police, and do trespass bans on autistic adults, and which trigger adults to force autistic children into therapies, medications, and mental hospitals.
FibetyJibets, August 6, 2026

😐 A comment/reply I made to Natalie Rochon on quora:
I definitely believe you have a disability, based on what you wrote, which is apparently, severely disconnecting you from other people. 
Being disconnected from others is core to autism, but also can happen because of severe fears, phobias, schizophrenia, or complex traumas like rape, torture, war exposure, injury, severe prolonged abuse or neglect, any of which could probably cause a kind of autism.
ML commented that you need sleep and that just six days without sleep is bad. She’s right. 
Being [SEVERELY] disconnected from others is a core element to autism, and truly at the center of autism, which you described; not blending in with all norms, as many self-deceived say in narratives of so-called autistic masking, much of which is neither autistic, nor masking, much less masking autism. Those who say they are masking in autism context, if they are masking, are usually doing non-autistic masking for social motivations to engage and participate socially, not autistic masking of autism vulnerability.
What’s an “ils worker”? A community support aid?
You said , “I don't drive because I have shutdowns.” This implies that you have driven, and may have had trouble driving because of shutdowns. Or you could mean that you had shutdowns when not driving. You could mean that you do not drive till you might put aside your reason and drive.
But my question about the reason you gave is this: Do you mean involuntary epileptic shutdowns, also known as epileptic seizures; or do you have a reason, or reasons, for a “shutdown”, such as uninvited, unwanted noises and pressures, as you gave “shutdowns” as a [reason] for not driving?
In other words, can you identify why you have a “shutdowns”, driving or not driving? Have you ever thought about what was going on, about what kinds of things are happening at the time?
I could name some possible things, such as unwanted, uninvited noises, or pressures to answer someone stacked on uninvited, unwanted noises, but I want to know what you say regarding particulars.
FibetyJibets, Aug. 9, 2026

😐That's right. Wanted, noise is ok. Wanted noise is internally invited and welcomed.

It's a misconception that autistic persons hate all noises, or all loud noises, which is lazy oversimplification.

The nuanced reality is that the problem is with UNWANTED, UNINVITED, unwelcomed noises that invade your sense of self boundaries through your sense of hearing , because the unwanted noise, sound, music, microwave, washer, dryer, blow dryer, leaf blower, jack hammer, wood chipper, chain saw, revving truck, bass sound, base sound booming sound, whistling, chewing, chomping, slurping, lip smacking, faucet running, dishes tinkling, flushing, showering, talking, singing, tv blaring, radio blaring, game noises are all UNINVITED, UNWANTED, UNWELCOMED EXTENTIONS OF OTHER PEOPLE ENTERING IN YOU BY NOISE THEY MAKE, THAT THEY OWN, THAT GETS INSIDE OF YOU.

FibetyJibets, Aug. 9, 2026

Edited, amended

That's right. Wanted, noise is ok to autistic persons and everyone else. Wanted noise is internally invited and welcomed.

It's a misconception that autistic persons hate all noises, or all loud noises, which is lazy oversimplification. In fact, everyone, at some point of violation sensitivity, hates unwanted, uninvited, unwelcomed noise, noises, sound, sounds, music.

It is an autistic disability by severity of viscerally feeling violated, and by severity of maladaptive, abnormal response(to common norms) if the feeling and response is so severe and visceral that it is disabling, such as by refusing to move, answer, speak, or do anything voluntary, however bizzare, strange, schizophrenic, crazy it may look to others nearby who wonder what's wrong with you, mock you, hate you, cackle, laugh, call an ambulance, police, which you do until the noise trespass stops. In other words, it's clearly autistic and clearly autism disability, if you have a true, willful, voluntary autistic freeze in response to feeling viscerally violated by the unwanted invasive noise of another, regardless of volume, that gets in you uninvited, unwelcomed, unwanted.

The nuanced reality is that the problem is with UNWANTED, UNINVITED, unwelcomed noises that invade your sense of self boundaries through your sense of hearing , because the unwanted noise, sound, music, microwave, washer, dryer, blow dryer, leaf blower, jack hammer, wood chipper, chain saw, revving truck, bass sound, base sound booming sound, whistling, chewing, chomping, slurping, lip smacking, faucet running, dishes tinkling, flushing, showering, talking, singing, tv blaring, radio blaring, game noises are all UNINVITED, UNWANTED, UNWELCOMED EXTENTIONS OF OTHER PEOPLE ENTERING IN YOU BY NOISE THEY MAKE, THAT THEY OWN, THAT GETS INSIDE OF YOU.

FibetyJibets, Aug. 9, 2026

A post😐Trying to make everything a feature of autism is ignorant. Autism is impairments, deficits, and severe behaviors that affect social, communication, and participation in society in disabling ways that disconnect and disable one from participating, communicating, and engaging socially.

Every little thing a person does, doesn't fit that DSM criteria, which I paraphrased.

How ironic that many people look for autism in non-disability things, such as counterfeit, over-associated non-autistic masking that is confused and falsely conflated with autism, and wrapped in deceptions, in non-disabiling special interests, in over-associated, non-disabling stims, in non-disabling quirks, in non-disabling differences, and other fluff to pad autism; and they are taken seriously and wag the dog, pressuring all of psychiatry to take nonsense seriously, ignoring fallacies and common sense.

This is because so many psychiatrists lack the common sense, wisdom, understanding, knowledge, will, discernment, and insight that Leo Kanner had to look for autism in core maladaptive behaviors, and not in prescriptive, or surface traits that are an inch deep in thought.

Kanner noticed patterns and underlying common denominators of the picture of what was going on that underlined the maladaptive behaviors, the theme of autism, the spirit of it, of being disconnected by inabilities that indicated hidden problems, or by adamant refusal that indicated hidden reasons. He was not laying children under a microscope, strapped down to look at their genetics either. Kanner was trying to discern the thinking styles, motives, needs, feelings , concerns, and common sense facts that could be observed and gathered about any human being, including autistic persons, if noises disturbed them, what noises, whose noises, what did they do, how did they respond, how did they behave? Kanner and Asperger both noticed that boundaries were an issue with certain autistic children. Kanner noticed that children in mental hospitals with diagnosises of childhood schizophrenia could be parsed out and separated as autistic, and that autistic children that he separated could be further divided into diverent types of autistic children.

But many psychiatrists are as full witted and lazy as they general public and many police, assuming every bizzare looking behavior is “crazy”, missing autism in front of them, blind to it.

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